« Archives | Main | Recent Replies »

November 22, 2016

novice femdom role play an hour daily

From: Marie
Date: Tue, 22 Nov 2016 17:30:48 -0000 (GMT)


My name is Marie. I'm a novice into femdom relations. I would
like to know your advice on playing roles about one hour a day
when to begin being a femdom or longer to reach the goal of full

Continue reading "novice femdom role play an hour daily" »

October 8, 2014

he is only allowed sexual pleasure when he takes it from behind

From: Judy
Date: Wed, 8 Oct 2014 11:05:38 -0400 (EDT)

Re: can my sub be obliged to beg to pegged?

I have moved on with my sub and he is no longer permitted any
kind of orgasm other than when I peg him


This seems to have really changed his thinking, somewhat
transforming him

Would love to hear feedback on any others who have done this?

Continue reading "he is only allowed sexual pleasure when he takes it from behind" »

March 1, 2012

cuddling, spanking, bondage and role-play

Date: Thu, 1 Mar 2012 18:49:23 +0000
From: Autumn

I'm a 61 year old woman, since a few years on my own again after
a long and for the latter part most unfulfilling marriage of
which the last 5 years we slept separately.

Since 5 months I have a 'relationship' that stutters on a few
cylinders. We live about 500 miles apart, and he's been here
three times now. The problem (if that is the word) is that he
wants me to dominate. Dom/sub is something I'd never encountered
before, although I knew it existed.

Continue reading "cuddling, spanking, bondage and role-play" »

November 3, 2011

submits only if done his way

From: Angeloftheknight
Date: Thu, 3 Nov 2011 11:13:10 +0000

I am having a few problems getting My husband to submit totally
to Me. I'll give you some background on us in the hope you can
advise me.

My husband and I have only been together 3 years. I'm 41, he is
58. Between us we have 5 children in the house ranging from 17
to 2 years old. My husband has in the past, from what he has
told me, been on line as a male Dom. Although he has never had a
submissive partner in the D/s sense of the word.

Continue reading "submits only if done his way" »

August 26, 2011

Dom partner new to this lifestyle

Date: Fri, 26 Aug 2011 08:24:50 -0700 (PDT)
From: kevin

Christine and David,

I hope you don't mind me posting my questions here. I have been
reading your blog for many years, and what a great blog it is.

I am now in a relationship where my partner is Dom (in fact i am
currently in a chastity device ) and i have shown her your

Continue reading "Dom partner new to this lifestyle" »

December 29, 2010

humiliating to him - sexy for me

Date: 29 Dec 2010 06:22:34 -0000
From: Claire


I love all of the ideas here! I met a guy that likes to be
humiliated. I think I can do it, even though I've never done it,
but is it normal to get turned on by them being humiliated?

How can I be pleased sexually and still be humiliating to him?

Continue reading "humiliating to him - sexy for me" »

February 13, 2010

femdom looking for ideas to do to my sub

Date: 13 Feb 2010 17:34:50 -0000
From: Emily

I am fairly new to the world of femdom. I am looking for ideas
to do to my sub. My sub is going to be tied up at all times so
that he is forced into bi-humiliation.

July 13, 2009

learning to be a dominatrix

From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Mon, 13 Jul 2009 04:01:11 +0100


In "how to be a better dominatrix" - "Willing to learn" wrote:

>I too am new to this whole thing.. and actually we tried it
>for the first time last night.. and well.. it ended up going

That's fine, don't worry about it. Think of dominating a
submissive male as like learning to ride a bike (if you'll
excuse the analogy) - do you remember your first time on a

Continue reading "learning to be a dominatrix" »

July 6, 2009

Domestic Discipline - Disciplinary Wives

From: "David" at MsChristine.com / u4ds.com
Date: Mon, 06 Jul 2009 04:08:50 +0100

Disciplinary Wives and the Domestic Discipline they administer.
by David (see "Author's Note" at the foot of this post)

I'm David, I'm a male submissive, and Christine is my lifetime
partner. Christine made me happy by becoming my disciplinary
wife some 30 years ago in 1979. Our 30th anniversary was in June
2009. I mention this to demonstrate that FemDom can lead to
longevity in relationships and it's not just about kinky sex
games in the bedroom.

Rather than talk only about us I want to explore in this brief
article some of the many facets of "Domestic Discipline" and
"Disciplinary Wives". Domestic Discipline may be practiced by
other couples, where the male is defined as the dominant
partner, and I've no doubt that works for some, but here I'm
primarily discussing FemDom relationships.

Continue reading "Domestic Discipline - Disciplinary Wives" »

July 13, 2008

Topping from the bottom a dead end

posted by: "jonnyboy54321"
posted on: Sun, 13 Jul 2008 20:48:24 -0000

Hi all,

i have been interested in this lifestyle for as long as i knew
what it was and perhaps unwittingly longer. i am recently
divorced from a strong lady who had some interest in it at the
beginning but it waned. i am now with a wonderful lady who is
almost the exact opposite and i couldn't be happier.

Originally when we tippy-toed around the idea she was of the tie
me up and spank me(her) mind-set, intrigued and eager to
explore. i have done some spanking and did a little with her but
it is soooo not me.

Continue reading "Topping from the bottom a dead end" »

June 29, 2008

how to be a better dominatrix

posted by: jane tetzlaff
posted on: Sun, 29 Jun 2008 16:29:48 +0000

Hi Christine / everyone,

I am a novice dominatrix, and find it hard to always be
convincing as a dom to my submissive partner, which tends to
make me nervous about what I do and say, which in turn, puts me
and him off sex.

I have problems with the power exchange aspect as well as I find
it can lack emotion. We love each other, but this is a very
important aspect of his life and has torn us apart.

Can you advise me how I can get my confidence back, so we can
both enjoy our sessions?

Continue reading "how to be a better dominatrix" »

March 14, 2008

Flogging the right person

posted by: Redlover
posted on: 14 Mar 2008 19:36:53 -0000

I'm a newbie.(real new) I'm looking to learn all the things I
need to to be more dominant.

I'm already there but my boyfriend doesn't care or want to know.
I don't want to be dominant with him. I want to be dominant with
someone else. Flogging is my favorite thing to do. This will
possibly turn into a LTR. This lifestyle is so freeing for me.
If I find the right person I'll definitely leave my boyfriend.

November 3, 2007

Thank you - fixing my dominance

posted by: Precious - MJ W
posted on: Sat, 3 Nov 2007 09:42:34 -0400 (EDT)

Hello Everyone!

Sorry I couldn't reply sooner - busy as usual.

I actually got to sit with my coffee this morning and catch up
on the posts. At first I was not pleased with what I read. It
did seem cold and nasty without context - however I kept reading
and Madamplz you have caught my attention. Your posts ABOUT me
were much more helpful than your post TO me.

I'm guessing it's because I'm new and you could let your guard
down more easily with those you already know.

Continue reading "Thank you - fixing my dominance" »

October 24, 2007

the skills to become dominant

posted by: Madamplz
posted on: Wed, 24 Oct 2007 16:13:06 EDT

Michele wrote:

>Maybe I'll sound discouraging, but it seems to me that if you
>have "tried and failed" at your husband's requests for 17
>years, chances are that being a "real" Domme is not for you.
>The fact that your husband's requests were "more like demands"
>appears to confirm my suspicion.

Yes, there's always that possibility too but I think this may be
more a case of listening to the wrong source of information (her
husband). Even surferslave, as a submissive, would not be the
best source however genuine his advice may be.

I started a lengthy post last week that got lost when my
electricity failed so I'll try to recap some of it below.

Continue reading "the skills to become dominant" »

« Archives | Main | Recent Replies »