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December 18, 2015

Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment

Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment

A two part book. First covering CBT devices and safety. Long descriptions of everything, which makes the first half a handy manual for the beginner to cock and ball torture.

In the second half there is collection of stories and cbt scene play experiences which may give you some erotic ideas.

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October 8, 2014

he is only allowed sexual pleasure when he takes it from behind

From: Judy
Date: Wed, 8 Oct 2014 11:05:38 -0400 (EDT)

Re: can my sub be obliged to beg to pegged?

I have moved on with my sub and he is no longer permitted any
kind of orgasm other than when I peg him


This seems to have really changed his thinking, somewhat
transforming him

Would love to hear feedback on any others who have done this?

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March 5, 2013

can my sub be obliged to beg to pegged?

Date: 5 Mar 2013 15:05:42 -0000
From: judy

I want my sub to get used to only being allowed to orgasm by
asking me to peg him and not permitted to orgasm by any other

Is this possible?

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June 30, 2012

I am unproven as a sub

From: Suzanne
Date: Sat, 30 Jun 2012 12:13:25 -0500

Help please, I am new to all this. I am in a one month
relationship that is still in the online stage. I have never
been in a D/s relationship before. The guy seems very genuine
and explains much to me. He has been pleased with my progress
and told me he would increase the level of control over me. He
has been very good about educating me and patient with me.

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March 1, 2012

cuddling, spanking, bondage and role-play

Date: Thu, 1 Mar 2012 18:49:23 +0000
From: Autumn

I'm a 61 year old woman, since a few years on my own again after
a long and for the latter part most unfulfilling marriage of
which the last 5 years we slept separately.

Since 5 months I have a 'relationship' that stutters on a few
cylinders. We live about 500 miles apart, and he's been here
three times now. The problem (if that is the word) is that he
wants me to dominate. Dom/sub is something I'd never encountered
before, although I knew it existed.

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November 3, 2011

submits only if done his way

From: Angeloftheknight
Date: Thu, 3 Nov 2011 11:13:10 +0000

I am having a few problems getting My husband to submit totally
to Me. I'll give you some background on us in the hope you can
advise me.

My husband and I have only been together 3 years. I'm 41, he is
58. Between us we have 5 children in the house ranging from 17
to 2 years old. My husband has in the past, from what he has
told me, been on line as a male Dom. Although he has never had a
submissive partner in the D/s sense of the word.

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December 29, 2010

humiliating to him - sexy for me

Date: 29 Dec 2010 06:22:34 -0000
From: Claire


I love all of the ideas here! I met a guy that likes to be
humiliated. I think I can do it, even though I've never done it,
but is it normal to get turned on by them being humiliated?

How can I be pleased sexually and still be humiliating to him?

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September 8, 2010

communicating with a domina within scene

Date: 7 Sep 2010 20:45:23 -0000
From: kevin

I found a great system for communicating with a domina, even
during a session. It's the "yes means no, no means yes

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July 13, 2009

learning to be a dominatrix

From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Mon, 13 Jul 2009 04:01:11 +0100


In "how to be a better dominatrix" - "Willing to learn" wrote:

>I too am new to this whole thing.. and actually we tried it
>for the first time last night.. and well.. it ended up going

That's fine, don't worry about it. Think of dominating a
submissive male as like learning to ride a bike (if you'll
excuse the analogy) - do you remember your first time on a

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November 14, 2007

what do submissives and masochists want?

posted by: "David" at u4ds.com
posted on: Wed, 14 Nov 2007 02:58:11 +0000


In (D/s lifestyle in film and video) Michele wrote:

>wouldn't you agree that most submissives do try to top from the
>bottom, to the extent that they wish and hope that the Dominant
>will do to them what they fantasize about - rather than what
>she really wants herself?


Now I'll explain why.

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October 3, 2007

new and need some help

posted by: storm
posted on: 3 Oct 2007 16:20:06 -0000

I am new to the lifestyle and need some help. I am dominant and
my boyfriend is submissive. He is into D/s and has experience.

Are there any rules about how I'm supposed to treat my sub?

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September 14, 2007

Severin Explained

posted by: Michele
posted on: Fri, 14 Sep 2007 18:38:43 -0400

continuation of "Michele, Kate and Severin"

Severin Explained (sort of).

Kate - the Cool One - didn't ask many questions about Severin
and our unusual relationship, but she was clearly intrigued -
amused and perplexed at the same time.

For her enlightenment, I proceeded to describe the psychology of
a submissive - or rather of my submissive, as they come in many
different flavors.

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