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May 23, 2016

my wife padlocked my balls

From: Will
Date: Mon, 23 May 2016 01:27:45 -0400 (EDT)

So my wife and I recently stumbled on to this post...


We are a pretty normal couple with healthy sexual appetite.
I was reading where a guy had to have a lock removed from
his testicles and mentioned it in passing to my wife.

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March 1, 2012

cuddling, spanking, bondage and role-play

Date: Thu, 1 Mar 2012 18:49:23 +0000
From: Autumn

I'm a 61 year old woman, since a few years on my own again after
a long and for the latter part most unfulfilling marriage of
which the last 5 years we slept separately.

Since 5 months I have a 'relationship' that stutters on a few
cylinders. We live about 500 miles apart, and he's been here
three times now. The problem (if that is the word) is that he
wants me to dominate. Dom/sub is something I'd never encountered
before, although I knew it existed.

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November 3, 2011

submits only if done his way

From: Angeloftheknight
Date: Thu, 3 Nov 2011 11:13:10 +0000

I am having a few problems getting My husband to submit totally
to Me. I'll give you some background on us in the hope you can
advise me.

My husband and I have only been together 3 years. I'm 41, he is
58. Between us we have 5 children in the house ranging from 17
to 2 years old. My husband has in the past, from what he has
told me, been on line as a male Dom. Although he has never had a
submissive partner in the D/s sense of the word.

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August 22, 2009

collared DOMestic old timer AtcherServis

From: PapaHertz
Date: Fri, 21 Aug 2009 18:56:59 EDT

Hello from an old time member of DOMestic, as I recall it used
to be called.

I no sooner celebrated my 'collaring' by a Mistress I met on
DOMestic, who returned to 'claim' me after eight years away from
the BDSM scene, by giving her the correct addie to return to
this site than what do I see? Subbie games!

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July 1, 2009

zapped and padlocked balls - software resuscitated

Date: Wed, 1 Jul 2009 23:22:37 +0000 (GMT)
From: tim spiers

Good Evening,

We purchased your training program more years ago than I wish to remember - about ten or twelve years ago.

We had massive fun with it and my wife really took it to heart and since that time we have led a domestic femdom relationship. I must stress that we are not "heavy breathing" fantasy type people and we live normal everyday lives except that when the time, mood and opportunity arise we switch into femdom mode. I posted some stuff to you years ago (see below) to tell you how we were getting on.


So - onto our present situation. This is a post from years ago, I think to you but if not, somewhat similar to my post to you......

Many years ago I saw a blue movie where a man crosses the local mafia boss. He gets taken to a warehouse, stripped naked and is chained to a wall with a padlock around his testicles.

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July 13, 2008

Topping from the bottom a dead end

posted by: "jonnyboy54321"
posted on: Sun, 13 Jul 2008 20:48:24 -0000

Hi all,

i have been interested in this lifestyle for as long as i knew
what it was and perhaps unwittingly longer. i am recently
divorced from a strong lady who had some interest in it at the
beginning but it waned. i am now with a wonderful lady who is
almost the exact opposite and i couldn't be happier.

Originally when we tippy-toed around the idea she was of the tie
me up and spank me(her) mind-set, intrigued and eager to
explore. i have done some spanking and did a little with her but
it is soooo not me.

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February 8, 2008

how to get comfortable in FemDom?

posted by: LiLlaceLiLleather
posted on: 8 Feb 2008 22:29:01 -0000

This is my first visit here. I'm here at my husbands prompting.
He wanted me to just look around. We have been married almost 30
years and he has always made reference to his submissiveness,
but I never really took him seriously.

It wasn't until recently that I decided to pursue his interest
and try to learn something about it. I've read the posts
('ways to be submissive - wife uninterested') and I see that others
have the barriers that we have, he's really into this and I'm not really
sure about the whole deal. I am here to get a better idea about how
this all works.

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December 7, 2007

cuckold - allowed to be submissive

posted by: jim
posted on: 7 Dec 2007 15:04:33 -0000

I have been a reader of this list for a long time and notice
that many men seem to have trouble fulfilling their fantasies of
being dominated. I, too, have had the same problems as many of

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December 6, 2007

D/s sessions - how it works for us

posted by: j_stimmt
posted on: 6 Dec 2007 03:16:29 -0000

Hi all,

I've been reading the "understanding wife" string with some
interest and have been lurking for quite some time... have been
away for quite some time and now enjoy reading the digests
again. I don't think I have any solutions for Pietro and can
only share from my own experience - which perhaps will lend some

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