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February 25, 2022

Chastity in the Third Age - using my favourite devices

Date: Fri, 25 Feb 2022 00:44:21 -0000
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com

It's been a while since anyone posted here on DOMestic. I hope this update on how David and I have been spending our days stimulates some conversation.

I recently noticed how 'inexpensive' chastity cages for men are nowadays, just as as an example these two I saw on Amazon are now at the 'toys' level of pricing.

Amazon chastity cages for men

At those prices I was happy to buy a couple of 'cheap' chastity cages for shorter term play, rather than try for long term chastity with possibly more expensive or complicated devices. I'll explain...

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May 23, 2016

my wife padlocked my balls

From: Will
Date: Mon, 23 May 2016 01:27:45 -0400 (EDT)

So my wife and I recently stumbled on to this post...


We are a pretty normal couple with healthy sexual appetite.
I was reading where a guy had to have a lock removed from
his testicles and mentioned it in passing to my wife.

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June 8, 2012

Denial the fantasy and the reality

Date: Fri, 8 Jun 2012 17:56:55 +0100 (BST)
From: Paul Carter

I am a 49 year old male based in the uk. I have become
fascinated by the prospect of being denied but sometimes
allowed, hopefully, release. I gather this is a common fantasy.

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June 10, 2011

Tease and Denial with Magic Wand

Date: 10 Jun 2011 04:11:02 -0000
From: slcfemdomcouple

A while ago I bought my wife a Hitachi Magic Wand. If you don't
have one ladies get one for yourself or men get one for your
S.O. I thought I'd post about a favorite activity that we have
been enjoying the past few years that I haven't seen mentioned
anywhere before.

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September 8, 2010

Prostate Massage Milking = Orgasm Denial?

Date: 8 Sep 2010 22:14:05 -0000
From: greg

I have been looking for information on prostatic massage milking
as a way for Mistress to deny orgasms to me.

From what i have read in different webs, if a male gets milked
through prostatic massage, he will still be horny and easily
aroused. However, he will not be able to orgasm for many hours
to a couple of days even if highly stimulated on his penis?

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September 5, 2010

remote control wanker

From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Sun, 05 Sep 2010 18:48:09 +0100


I've just read David's sensible guidance on the issue of zappers
in the "electric with anticipation of being zapped" thread.

So I thought I'd remind some of the ladies of the fun to be had
with a zapper and what I like to call my "remote control wanker"
which I've probably mentioned here before. There are many
variations you can use, but here are a few of mine.

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June 20, 2010

sexual tension - why cock teasing works for me

From: "David" at u4ds.com
Date: Sun, 20 Jun 2010 01:31:14 +0100

Here is another very old post of mine first posted at:-

Sexual Tension

Many liberated folk agree on the importance of sexual
experimentation prior to marriage. I think most would agree that
having sex before marriage is important to establish
compatibility. Even if I am wrong about the 'most', I personally
think it of the highest priority to be sexually compatible
before entering into a long term committed relationship.

However my fertile imagination can come up with some
circumstances under which I might make such a long term
commitment to a woman who refused to let me have the pleasure of
actually "sleeping with her".

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October 30, 2009

Chastity cloud nine - Goddess addiction

Date: 30 Oct 2009 00:21:45 -0000
From: slaveboy

In "Chastity Question, Is "Milking" Just The Myth That I Think
It Is
" I wrote:

>Ever experience "tingling" throughout your whole body along
>with sexual or sensual thoughts?

David replied:

>This always happens to me when I'm subjected to prolonged
>arousal without ejaculation being permitted. It's the best and
>probably the only 'buzz' I get without chemicals, and as I only
>use tobacco and alcohol, and do not want to seek out any other
>chemical "buzz" I highly recommend the buzz or high from
>prolonged "prickteasing"

David, I have been meaning to reply to this since I read it. I'm
so glad to hear this. I have been on cloud nine a lot recently
and I almost feel as if I'm floating at times. I can be out
grocery shopping and see an attractive woman, or I can be home
with my wife and I get such a strong "high" that it really feels
like a drug.

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July 21, 2009

Chastity, foot worship and the feeling of being gelded

Date: Tue, 21 Jul 2009 14:06:29 -0700 (PDT)
From: slaveboy

Hi All,

It's been quite some time since I have posted here such that
maybe no one remembers me. My Wife/Mistress and I have enjoyed
almost ten years of lifestyle D/s. I bought her our first
chastity device for our wedding and we took D/s vows, after the
actual wedding, in private.

Chastity has long had a deep hold on me, but after trying so
many different devices my Mistress settled on her favorite as
the Club Fem mcd because she liked the spikes and the pain I had
to endure with every arousal.

She enjoys using me for oral and she has redefined what "sex" is
for me.

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September 16, 2008

submissive and cuckold conditioning

Date: Tue, 16 Sep 2008 12:03:32 +0000 (GMT)
From: lecheur

Dear all,

I love the tips by Joe here.

I am a man myself. I haven't been feminised, but however, my
wife, my sister and to a lesser extent some relatives have been
good at conditioning myself to have pleasure in giving them
pleasure (mostly with my tongue and other parts of my body, but
not with my cock) and to become used to a submissive role.

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July 6, 2008

spiked penis corsets and devices

posted by: "Christine" at u4ds.com / MsChristine.com
posted on: Sun, 06 Jul 2008 05:27:10 +0000


In "keeping interest in sex" emily wrote:

>what is and where does one get the spikey penis corset?

I've said this many times over the years, but perhaps you were
not around at the time.

My spiky penis corset is home made, and instructions for making
your own are on the member's web site (link below) and can be
found via the home made devices section of the blog. Scan down
the right hand side menu to "Equipment - Toys / Home Made".

Sharp-Spiked Penis Corset with pictures

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April 4, 2008

c+b, feminization, and orgasm control

posted by: xtiml
posted on: 4 Apr 2008 00:38:41 -0000

Re: 'Chastity-tease-denial-milking'

Tips and items useful and easily available.

First my dear ladies you got to first find out your targets
quirks, tendencies and mainly fetishes. His fetishes are used to
enslave and/or whatever you desire to do. Also you can create
new fetishes and stimuli in your other half. Here are some
useful and commanding things to use in the first steps and
further on as well, under c+b, feminization, and orgasm control
and chastity.

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February 5, 2008

Chastity teasing-denial

posted by: HappyD
posted on: 5 Feb 2008 15:45:10 -0000

In: 'Chastity-tease-denial-milking' John Doh wrote:

>This game keeps me very focused on her (can't concentrate at
>work even) and very attentive of her needs (both physical and
>emotional), but only so long as the 'game' continues... out-
>right neglect leads to a frustration level that has more
>negative effects..

Chastity is a very powerful thing and I love experimenting with
it. Like everything else, the length of denial affects different
people in different ways.

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November 26, 2007

teasing and denial of self?

posted by: sissy susan
posted on: 26 Nov 2007 02:07:36 -0000

Mistress and other persons of the Superior Gender.

Three weeks ago i put myself in chastity, there to stay until
granted the privilege of release by a superior Female being.

i do have a Dominant Woman in mind but until She sorts out Her
own personal problems, (though She would love being my
Keyholder) i will have to sit and wait.

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October 8, 2007

the dynamics of tease denial

posted by: "Christine" at MsChristine.com
posted on: Mon, 08 Oct 2007 17:42:44 +0000


In (turned on by "peeking") Michele wrote:

>The resentment that comes with frustration must also be

Good word, subsumed. I think David does incorporate his
resentment within his submission, and even enjoys the process of
doing so during his arousal state.

Although he denies there is any resentment to "subsume" when he
is being the rational and sane list person.

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September 16, 2007

turned on by "peeking"

posted by: "David" at Ms-Christine.com
posted on: Sun, 16 Sep 2007 18:34:44 +0000


I can't speak for anyone but myself, but regarding Severin, In
caning the sub-moderator, Michele wrote:

>was he really turned on by "peeking"

In my case that's a great turn on in itself.

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May 24, 2007


posted by: "John Doh" j0hnnyd0h at yahoo
posted on: Thu, 24 May 2007 08:54:47 -0700 (PDT)

Greetings All,

Re: Male Chastity Devices

While we're on this topic.... I'd love to hear opinions on a
couple of sub-topics (accidental pun, really!). I know some of
this has been touched on in the archives, but I'm hoping for
fresh clarity (and to spark more conversation, it's been quiet
here lately).


My wife has recently (we're both newbies here) discovered that
she enjoys playing tease/denial games. And I'm at that delicate
point of being really excited that she's found a kink she
enjoys, but a little nervous of what the future holds... ;-)

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