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March 1, 2012

cuddling, spanking, bondage and role-play

Date: Thu, 1 Mar 2012 18:49:23 +0000
From: Autumn

I'm a 61 year old woman, since a few years on my own again after
a long and for the latter part most unfulfilling marriage of
which the last 5 years we slept separately.

Since 5 months I have a 'relationship' that stutters on a few
cylinders. We live about 500 miles apart, and he's been here
three times now. The problem (if that is the word) is that he
wants me to dominate. Dom/sub is something I'd never encountered
before, although I knew it existed.

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May 20, 2011

Do Mistresses ever TAKE a "vanilla" male?

From: fem fan
Date: Fri, 20 May 2011 10:20:13 +0000

Hello to all,

A little about myself first, I am a mid 30's male based in the
southwest of England (M4 corridor) who has, to date, never
submitted to a dominant female (of any type) even though this
stokes an almost uncontrollable fire within me.

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September 9, 2009

pleasure punishing or from dominating her man?

Date: 9 Sep 2009 00:41:09 -0000
From: Joe

Question to Dominant Ladies,

It has been mentioned that some submissive men get major
satisfaction when they believe their Mistress is getting excited
or experiencing pleasure when they punish or demand other
services from him.

My question is: Do Mistresses really get excited punishing or
otherwise dominating her man or do they just fake pleasure?

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July 6, 2009

Domestic Discipline - Disciplinary Wives

From: "David" at MsChristine.com / u4ds.com
Date: Mon, 06 Jul 2009 04:08:50 +0100

Disciplinary Wives and the Domestic Discipline they administer.
by David (see "Author's Note" at the foot of this post)

I'm David, I'm a male submissive, and Christine is my lifetime
partner. Christine made me happy by becoming my disciplinary
wife some 30 years ago in 1979. Our 30th anniversary was in June
2009. I mention this to demonstrate that FemDom can lead to
longevity in relationships and it's not just about kinky sex
games in the bedroom.

Rather than talk only about us I want to explore in this brief
article some of the many facets of "Domestic Discipline" and
"Disciplinary Wives". Domestic Discipline may be practiced by
other couples, where the male is defined as the dominant
partner, and I've no doubt that works for some, but here I'm
primarily discussing FemDom relationships.

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November 18, 2007

Masochists/submissives successful in love

posted by: Madamplz
posted on: Sat, 17 Nov 2007 20:08:16 EST

In Re: C: D/s lifestyle in film and video, Michele wrote:

>Masochists/submissives are more often than not unsuccessful, or
>poorly successful, in love. You are one exception that confirms
>the rule, David.

I would disagree with you here, Michele. I've met couples who
have dropped their guard long enough to share that they engage
in some sort of dominant/submissive play. They may not qualify
it that way but that's what I would call things like cracking
their husband's balls with wooden spoons with the intention of
inflicting pain, or requiring their spouses to serve them in one
way or another, or to dress according to their whims which might
or might not include varying degrees of cross

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September 16, 2007

My Inner Submissive

posted by: Michele
posted on: Sun, 16 Sep 2007 18:59:20 -0400


I wrote this chapter a week ago but hesitated to send it. I'm
afraid it might be misunderstood. I definitely do not have a D/s
relationship with Kate. But I felt I had to be honest about some
feelings I have struggled with since I have known her.

continuation of "Michele, Kate and Severin"

My Inner Submissive

I didn't realize it clearly at the time, but I think that part
of my strong attraction to Kate had something to do with her
self-assurance, her strong take-charge attitude.

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September 14, 2007

Severin Explained

posted by: Michele
posted on: Fri, 14 Sep 2007 18:38:43 -0400

continuation of "Michele, Kate and Severin"

Severin Explained (sort of).

Kate - the Cool One - didn't ask many questions about Severin
and our unusual relationship, but she was clearly intrigued -
amused and perplexed at the same time.

For her enlightenment, I proceeded to describe the psychology of
a submissive - or rather of my submissive, as they come in many
different flavors.

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October 26, 2006

understood so clearly

posted by: puntalara
posted on: Thu, 26 Oct 2006 05:28:59 -0400


This is just a short message for Christine.

I have just finished reading your long and thoughtful reply to
and I have never before understood so clearly and
appreciatively the Domme-sub relationship!

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