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February 3, 2021

role play or topping from the bottom

From: lee nelson
Date: Wed, 3 Feb 2021 15:14:05 +0000

I asked my wife to act the dominant role, and when she was at a
loss as to what to do I suggested she pretend she's my boss at

Trouble is, I took it too seriously and phoned in sick.

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November 22, 2016

novice femdom role play an hour daily

From: Marie
Date: Tue, 22 Nov 2016 17:30:48 -0000 (GMT)


My name is Marie. I'm a novice into femdom relations. I would
like to know your advice on playing roles about one hour a day
when to begin being a femdom or longer to reach the goal of full

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May 23, 2016

my wife padlocked my balls

From: Will
Date: Mon, 23 May 2016 01:27:45 -0400 (EDT)

So my wife and I recently stumbled on to this post...


We are a pretty normal couple with healthy sexual appetite.
I was reading where a guy had to have a lock removed from
his testicles and mentioned it in passing to my wife.

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June 30, 2012

I am unproven as a sub

From: Suzanne
Date: Sat, 30 Jun 2012 12:13:25 -0500

Help please, I am new to all this. I am in a one month
relationship that is still in the online stage. I have never
been in a D/s relationship before. The guy seems very genuine
and explains much to me. He has been pleased with my progress
and told me he would increase the level of control over me. He
has been very good about educating me and patient with me.

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March 1, 2012

cuddling, spanking, bondage and role-play

Date: Thu, 1 Mar 2012 18:49:23 +0000
From: Autumn

I'm a 61 year old woman, since a few years on my own again after
a long and for the latter part most unfulfilling marriage of
which the last 5 years we slept separately.

Since 5 months I have a 'relationship' that stutters on a few
cylinders. We live about 500 miles apart, and he's been here
three times now. The problem (if that is the word) is that he
wants me to dominate. Dom/sub is something I'd never encountered
before, although I knew it existed.

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November 27, 2011

is it normal to call me a slut?

Date: 27 Nov 2011 07:00:48 -0000
From: angeleyez

In "never done this - some guidance appreciated" Sylvia D

>"I am starting to feel confused"

i too am new at being a submissive and just recently have been
collared by a dom.

he is constantly addressing to me as slut, i have known him
outside the dom relationship for 2-1/2 years and have never been
called this by him and although i want to learn this lifestyle
it makes me feel like i am nothing...

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July 25, 2011

never done this - some guidance appreciated

Date: Mon, 25 Jul 2011 18:52:41 +0100
From: Sylvia D


I am seeking advise, if this is okay or if indeed possible for
you to help me. I am probably going to ramble but will do my
best to say this.

I am a member of a social network site now for 5 months, and a
Dom has taken interest in me, so much so that now he says (in
mails) I am his (MINE).

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April 28, 2011

nuked begins a new relationship

From: "Darryl Ducharme" nuked_potatoes
Date: Mon, 27 Apr 2011 22:41:00 -0600

Hello all,

You may remember me from the past. I begin a new relationship.
Marjan has moved on. Very devastating for me... and after two
years of losing her, someone told me in a round about way i was
a stalking type guy.... when i realized this i stopped all
communication.... my love was very deep...

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September 30, 2010

fear femdom procedures too kinky for my wife

Date: Thu, 30 Sep 2010 12:45:27 +0100 (BST)
From: Tom Chambers

Hello Christine,

I would like my wife to try some of the femdom procedures I
think might be in your training packages. However, I fear she
may be a bit reluctant to try them because she thinks they are
too kinky... any advice?

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September 8, 2010

communicating with a domina within scene

Date: 7 Sep 2010 20:45:23 -0000
From: kevin

I found a great system for communicating with a domina, even
during a session. It's the "yes means no, no means yes

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June 14, 2009

femdom - how to show my wife the joys?

Date: Sun, 14 Jun 2009 17:11:42 -0000
From: "stretchjdh"

how do i show my wife the joys of my being feminized and
domesticated to satisfy and worship only her?

April 18, 2009

DS relationship resources

Date: 18 Apr 2009 09:02:48 -0000
From: macK

In "dominant female / submissive male lifestyle" yoniman wrote:

>Interested in how i can be a better submissive

I'm barely learning this DS relationship and I hear that it can
be a beautiful thing between two people? Do you have any
resources on how I can do research to please my Domme that would
impress her? Again I am 101 very new but would love to learn to
please my princess. Could you help?

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March 13, 2009

Is kink really fair for most Women?

From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Fri, 13 Mar 2009 18:18:10 -0000


In "dominant woman - only in a drunken stupor", Nuked Potatoes
expressed the idea that kink is not really fair for most women.
Does it matter? I doubt that most men are kinky, so kink doesn't
need to be "fair for most women".

I don't think we need to concern ourselves with "most" people.
Because in developing a relationship between any couple, there
are only two people that matter.

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February 14, 2008

a sub for my wife?

posted by: john
posted on: 14 Feb 2008 21:04:29 -0000

Hi Anyone,

I am very interested to be a sub for my wife.

Is a man being a sub for my wife possible in real life? Is this
kind of life style common nowadays? Please advise any one who
has experience. If we start dom/sub life style, will it be a
happy life or boring?


February 8, 2008

how to get comfortable in FemDom?

posted by: LiLlaceLiLleather
posted on: 8 Feb 2008 22:29:01 -0000

This is my first visit here. I'm here at my husbands prompting.
He wanted me to just look around. We have been married almost 30
years and he has always made reference to his submissiveness,
but I never really took him seriously.

It wasn't until recently that I decided to pursue his interest
and try to learn something about it. I've read the posts
('ways to be submissive - wife uninterested') and I see that others
have the barriers that we have, he's really into this and I'm not really
sure about the whole deal. I am here to get a better idea about how
this all works.

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January 31, 2008

dominant female / submissive male lifestyle

posted on: 31 Jan 2008 15:51:24 -0000
posted by: yoniman

I'm very interested in the entire dominant female / submissive
male lifestyle. Interested in how i can be a better submissive
as well as how I can get the dominant woman in my life to more
completely take the reins.

October 3, 2007

new and need some help

posted by: storm
posted on: 3 Oct 2007 16:20:06 -0000

I am new to the lifestyle and need some help. I am dominant and
my boyfriend is submissive. He is into D/s and has experience.

Are there any rules about how I'm supposed to treat my sub?

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April 22, 2007

My Submission. A slave's point of view - part 2

posted by: leatherslave
posted on: 22 Apr 2007 01:13:34 -0000

Well, this update picks up on the last update given by Michele
Grounded Shield. Her title is The Beginning part 3.

For those who haven't been following along with our lives'
postings here you can go back and see all that has been written.

Her latest posting starts up on April 1, 2007 and so does this.
This is a response to her journal from my point of view so all
can get a double perspective.


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April 11, 2007

The Beginning - Part 3

posted by: "Michele Grounded_Shield"
posted on: Wed, 11 Apr 2007 09:17:16 -0700 (PDT)

Here is more of our story. I hope you enjoy hearing about our

Miss Michele


The story starts at:- http://u4ds.us/2007/03/the_beginning.shtml


The Beginning - Part 3

Sunday, April 1, 2007

Tonight was supposed to be a good night. I've missed you so
much. I know we spent the week in the same house but I've missed
having you hold me and everything that goes with it. I was happy
to have the kids home and happy that you got along so well with
them. I still needed tonight to be a good night though.

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