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March 1, 2012

cuddling, spanking, bondage and role-play

Date: Thu, 1 Mar 2012 18:49:23 +0000
From: Autumn

I'm a 61 year old woman, since a few years on my own again after
a long and for the latter part most unfulfilling marriage of
which the last 5 years we slept separately.

Since 5 months I have a 'relationship' that stutters on a few
cylinders. We live about 500 miles apart, and he's been here
three times now. The problem (if that is the word) is that he
wants me to dominate. Dom/sub is something I'd never encountered
before, although I knew it existed.

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November 3, 2011

submits only if done his way

From: Angeloftheknight
Date: Thu, 3 Nov 2011 11:13:10 +0000

I am having a few problems getting My husband to submit totally
to Me. I'll give you some background on us in the hope you can
advise me.

My husband and I have only been together 3 years. I'm 41, he is
58. Between us we have 5 children in the house ranging from 17
to 2 years old. My husband has in the past, from what he has
told me, been on line as a male Dom. Although he has never had a
submissive partner in the D/s sense of the word.

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April 4, 2010

she feels far away from me emotionally

Date: 4 Apr 2010 02:26:40 -0000
From: j_stimmt

I am writing tonight because it seems I have reached an impasse
with my wife as regards our femdom play together.

Life has become stressful for both of us. We have an out-of-
control teenage son. I'm in graduate school and she's starting
her own business. We are like two ships in the night passing
each other daily with very little time to nurture our

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March 13, 2009

Is kink really fair for most Women?

From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Fri, 13 Mar 2009 18:18:10 -0000


In "dominant woman - only in a drunken stupor", Nuked Potatoes
expressed the idea that kink is not really fair for most women.
Does it matter? I doubt that most men are kinky, so kink doesn't
need to be "fair for most women".

I don't think we need to concern ourselves with "most" people.
Because in developing a relationship between any couple, there
are only two people that matter.

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December 27, 2008

What would you do or how would you like to be treated

From: "Susan"
Date: Sat, 27 Dec 2008 17:29:44 -0000

Yesterday my boy broke one of my cut glass sherry glasses while
pouring us both a sherry. He does not make a habit of breaking
things or causing damage and in fact this is only the second
item he has broken during our relationship but it was precious
to me

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November 18, 2007

Masochists/submissives successful in love

posted by: Madamplz
posted on: Sat, 17 Nov 2007 20:08:16 EST

In Re: C: D/s lifestyle in film and video, Michele wrote:

>Masochists/submissives are more often than not unsuccessful, or
>poorly successful, in love. You are one exception that confirms
>the rule, David.

I would disagree with you here, Michele. I've met couples who
have dropped their guard long enough to share that they engage
in some sort of dominant/submissive play. They may not qualify
it that way but that's what I would call things like cracking
their husband's balls with wooden spoons with the intention of
inflicting pain, or requiring their spouses to serve them in one
way or another, or to dress according to their whims which might
or might not include varying degrees of cross

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September 10, 2007

Kate Moves In

posted by: Michele
posted on: Mon, 10 Sep 2007 18:02:53 -0400

continuation of "Michele, Kate and Severin"

Kate Moves In

The dinner with Kate at my house - a romantic, candlelit affair
for just the two of us - was quite a success. Severin had
prepared a wonderful meal, which he served with exemplary
finesse. Kate was impressed by his efficient, self-effacing
style, and even complimented him for his cooking at the end of
the meal.

I remember he blushed with pleasure, bowed and said: "Thank you,
Ms Kate" and promptly retired to his kitchen.

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