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March 20, 2017

my Wife is the Dom but will not admit it

From: Wannabe slave t
Date: Wed, 15 Mar 2017 15:23:10 -0400

Maybe other men are in the situation I am. A number of years ago
I tried to get my WIFE to realize the possibilities a FEMDOMME
relationship presented. We tried it briefly but she never really
got in to it. She is still the DOMME and will not admit it and
simply does not believe in a FEMDOMME relationship.

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January 7, 2016

Please help convince my wife to try Dom

From: Mitchell
Date: Wed, 6 Jan 2016 14:29:04 -0500


I would like my wife to become at least a dom and if she would a
dominatrix so to fully feminize, sissify, me as her slave.

Here is my problem she thinks this is a crazy life style change
for us, how can I convince her that to consider to try

We have been married for a number of years and I have been and
continue to be a closeted cross dresser with the desire to
please her as a slave and be used to please other men and women
as she wants.

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January 7, 2011

teasing and denial fun NOT humiliation

Date: 7 Jan 2011 05:58:21 -0000
From: MichaelK

It is great to find DOMestic not only active again, but showing
just how good it can be!

As a man who does not want anything to do with humiliation I
hope I can add a new perspective.

Firstly, I think Christine has done an excellent job in
"humiliating to him - sexy for me" of showing how a partner who
does not enjoy giving humiliation in itself, can find ways of
not only making her partner very happy, but having a good time

And David provided a great explanation of why some men enjoy
humiliation in the "Lovely Humiliation" thread.

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April 4, 2010

she feels far away from me emotionally

Date: 4 Apr 2010 02:26:40 -0000
From: j_stimmt

I am writing tonight because it seems I have reached an impasse
with my wife as regards our femdom play together.

Life has become stressful for both of us. We have an out-of-
control teenage son. I'm in graduate school and she's starting
her own business. We are like two ships in the night passing
each other daily with very little time to nurture our

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March 13, 2009

Is kink really fair for most Women?

From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Fri, 13 Mar 2009 18:18:10 -0000


In "dominant woman - only in a drunken stupor", Nuked Potatoes
expressed the idea that kink is not really fair for most women.
Does it matter? I doubt that most men are kinky, so kink doesn't
need to be "fair for most women".

I don't think we need to concern ourselves with "most" people.
Because in developing a relationship between any couple, there
are only two people that matter.

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November 8, 2008

female domination - getting her more interested

Date: Sat, 08 Nov 2008 16:06:17 -0000
From: "pinny1818"

I enjoy my female partner tying me up and teasing me until the
point of bursting. She is not crazy about this, so i get this
treat once every 3-4 months, when she feels guilty about
something else and wants to make me to forgive her.

How do i get her interested in getting her more interested?

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December 19, 2007

An understanding Dominant

posted by: Madamplz
posted on: Wed, 19 Dec 2007 11:36:07 EST

gw pm wrote:

>Thank you, Madamplz, for setting one misguided submissive
>husband straight!

It's what I do. Thank you for your enthusiastic response. ;)

Pietro Bianchi wrote:

>You are assuming a lot of things... you could ask, and I will
>be glad to answer ;-)

It would be more accurate to say I read what you had to say and
responded according to the information you gave us.. When
someone who wants to be the submissive in a relationship posts
here, I make an assumption that it is their/your desire to be a
"true" submissive. If I thought you were asking for advice on
how to pretend to be submissive I wouldn't bother responding.

So there's no need to go on the defensive. My response was
intended to let you hear yourself. Perhaps you know what you
mean by it, but judging from the responses I heard, and others
heard, you say something else. That in itself should indicate to
you that you are not communicating clearly.

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December 5, 2007

misguided submissive husband

posted by: GW PM
posted on: Wed, 5 Dec 2007 23:46:10 +0000

Re: C: An understanding wife?

Wow! This is Me! At least, what Pietro Bianchi said could have
been written by me! I really couldn't understand why my attempts
weren't working with my wife of 30 years. Why couldn't she
understand my desire to have her dominate me? It seems so
"normal", especially with a domineering wife to begin with!

Until I read Madamplz' post. What a revelation! Hit me over the
head with a brick! What Madamplz said made so much sense, I
don't know why I didn't see it before. Probably thinking with
the wrong head?

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July 29, 2007

it's not her thing

posted by: george1956
posted on: 29 Jul 2007 11:21:11 -0000

Re: The Countess and the Caretaker - part nineteen

Good Morning Mistress Christine,

Your ongoing saga the Countess and the Caretaker is really hot.
i can't wait till the next part comes out.

I live in the usa, i wish my wife would get into the dominant
role. She says it's not her thing.

I love your site, I wish i had the money to go to the U.K. and
experience some of that kind of servicing a true dom.

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