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February 3, 2021

role play or topping from the bottom

From: lee nelson
Date: Wed, 3 Feb 2021 15:14:05 +0000

I asked my wife to act the dominant role, and when she was at a
loss as to what to do I suggested she pretend she's my boss at

Trouble is, I took it too seriously and phoned in sick.

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September 8, 2010

communicating with a domina within scene

Date: 7 Sep 2010 20:45:23 -0000
From: kevin

I found a great system for communicating with a domina, even
during a session. It's the "yes means no, no means yes

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June 7, 2010

topping from the bottom - self absorbed

Date: 6 Jun 2010 07:53:39 -0000
From: cyndy

In "men who top from the bottom - submissive or not?" Mistress P
/sub_arub asked "would you say he is truly a submissive?"

I believe that a male topping from the bottom with an
inexperienced BDSM person (or hired dommes) is really just a
very self absorbed person who wants his cake (stimulation)
served to him in just the fashion he wants it, and is happy to
not have to lift a finger to satisfy his partner.

April 20, 2009

Devotional Dating - TFTB for real female control

Date: 20 Apr 2009 03:43:25 -0000
From: MichaelK

In Re: C: Devotional Sex, john henry wrote:

>always wanted to be a Knight as expressed in this site and
>would like to know if anyone has any practical knowledge

John (and others),

I have found that the best way to find a Princess is via normal

Devotional Sex does not need the woman to be dominant, and
Devotional Sex allows the Knight to make lots of suggestions
(seen as Topping from the Bottom in traditional BDSM). So your
first Devotional Date will be very different from a slave having
a session with a Mistress.

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March 12, 2009

men who top from the bottom - submissive or not?

Date: Thu, 12 Mar 2009 14:23:21 -0000
From: Mistress P /sub_arub

Is he or isn't he?

I have two questions for the group, and am seeking responses
from experienced female dominants:

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