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June 30, 2012

I am unproven as a sub

From: Suzanne
Date: Sat, 30 Jun 2012 12:13:25 -0500

Help please, I am new to all this. I am in a one month
relationship that is still in the online stage. I have never
been in a D/s relationship before. The guy seems very genuine
and explains much to me. He has been pleased with my progress
and told me he would increase the level of control over me. He
has been very good about educating me and patient with me.

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November 27, 2011

is it normal to call me a slut?

Date: 27 Nov 2011 07:00:48 -0000
From: angeleyez

In "never done this - some guidance appreciated" Sylvia D

>"I am starting to feel confused"

i too am new at being a submissive and just recently have been
collared by a dom.

he is constantly addressing to me as slut, i have known him
outside the dom relationship for 2-1/2 years and have never been
called this by him and although i want to learn this lifestyle
it makes me feel like i am nothing...

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July 25, 2011

never done this - some guidance appreciated

Date: Mon, 25 Jul 2011 18:52:41 +0100
From: Sylvia D


I am seeking advise, if this is okay or if indeed possible for
you to help me. I am probably going to ramble but will do my
best to say this.

I am a member of a social network site now for 5 months, and a
Dom has taken interest in me, so much so that now he says (in
mails) I am his (MINE).

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November 27, 2009

boi learning to be a better slave for Ma'am

Date: 27 Nov 2009 19:36:44 -0000
From: catholicschoolboi

This boi's Mistress has sent him here to learn, and this boi is
SO grateful for the opportunity to explore and be a better slave
for Ma'am! Thank you! Bows.

December 1, 2008

advice for novice submissive

Date: 1 Dec 2008 08:49:37 -0000
From: Charlie

In "Kindly Requesting Assistance", Sonja Roberts wrote:

>welcome any advice an experienced female Dom has -snip- I
>really do not want to start this relationship with games

As a Dom male, I wish all the possible luck, happiness and
pleasure that you can find. have fun (but do not tell anyone it
should be FUN)

September 16, 2008

submissive and cuckold conditioning

Date: Tue, 16 Sep 2008 12:03:32 +0000 (GMT)
From: lecheur

Dear all,

I love the tips by Joe here.

I am a man myself. I haven't been feminised, but however, my
wife, my sister and to a lesser extent some relatives have been
good at conditioning myself to have pleasure in giving them
pleasure (mostly with my tongue and other parts of my body, but
not with my cock) and to become used to a submissive role.

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December 19, 2007

An understanding Dominant

posted by: Madamplz
posted on: Wed, 19 Dec 2007 11:36:07 EST

gw pm wrote:

>Thank you, Madamplz, for setting one misguided submissive
>husband straight!

It's what I do. Thank you for your enthusiastic response. ;)

Pietro Bianchi wrote:

>You are assuming a lot of things... you could ask, and I will
>be glad to answer ;-)

It would be more accurate to say I read what you had to say and
responded according to the information you gave us.. When
someone who wants to be the submissive in a relationship posts
here, I make an assumption that it is their/your desire to be a
"true" submissive. If I thought you were asking for advice on
how to pretend to be submissive I wouldn't bother responding.

So there's no need to go on the defensive. My response was
intended to let you hear yourself. Perhaps you know what you
mean by it, but judging from the responses I heard, and others
heard, you say something else. That in itself should indicate to
you that you are not communicating clearly.

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December 5, 2007

misguided submissive husband

posted by: GW PM
posted on: Wed, 5 Dec 2007 23:46:10 +0000

Re: C: An understanding wife?

Wow! This is Me! At least, what Pietro Bianchi said could have
been written by me! I really couldn't understand why my attempts
weren't working with my wife of 30 years. Why couldn't she
understand my desire to have her dominate me? It seems so
"normal", especially with a domineering wife to begin with!

Until I read Madamplz' post. What a revelation! Hit me over the
head with a brick! What Madamplz said made so much sense, I
don't know why I didn't see it before. Probably thinking with
the wrong head?

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November 14, 2007

what do submissives and masochists want?

posted by: "David" at u4ds.com
posted on: Wed, 14 Nov 2007 02:58:11 +0000


In (D/s lifestyle in film and video) Michele wrote:

>wouldn't you agree that most submissives do try to top from the
>bottom, to the extent that they wish and hope that the Dominant
>will do to them what they fantasize about - rather than what
>she really wants herself?


Now I'll explain why.

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