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March 20, 2017

my Wife is the Dom but will not admit it

From: Wannabe slave t
Date: Wed, 15 Mar 2017 15:23:10 -0400

Maybe other men are in the situation I am. A number of years ago
I tried to get my WIFE to realize the possibilities a FEMDOMME
relationship presented. We tried it briefly but she never really
got in to it. She is still the DOMME and will not admit it and
simply does not believe in a FEMDOMME relationship.

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April 4, 2010

she feels far away from me emotionally

Date: 4 Apr 2010 02:26:40 -0000
From: j_stimmt

I am writing tonight because it seems I have reached an impasse
with my wife as regards our femdom play together.

Life has become stressful for both of us. We have an out-of-
control teenage son. I'm in graduate school and she's starting
her own business. We are like two ships in the night passing
each other daily with very little time to nurture our

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March 13, 2009

Is kink really fair for most Women?

From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Fri, 13 Mar 2009 18:18:10 -0000


In "dominant woman - only in a drunken stupor", Nuked Potatoes
expressed the idea that kink is not really fair for most women.
Does it matter? I doubt that most men are kinky, so kink doesn't
need to be "fair for most women".

I don't think we need to concern ourselves with "most" people.
Because in developing a relationship between any couple, there
are only two people that matter.

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November 8, 2008

female domination - getting her more interested

Date: Sat, 08 Nov 2008 16:06:17 -0000
From: "pinny1818"

I enjoy my female partner tying me up and teasing me until the
point of bursting. She is not crazy about this, so i get this
treat once every 3-4 months, when she feels guilty about
something else and wants to make me to forgive her.

How do i get her interested in getting her more interested?

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December 19, 2007

An understanding Dominant

posted by: Madamplz
posted on: Wed, 19 Dec 2007 11:36:07 EST

gw pm wrote:

>Thank you, Madamplz, for setting one misguided submissive
>husband straight!

It's what I do. Thank you for your enthusiastic response. ;)

Pietro Bianchi wrote:

>You are assuming a lot of things... you could ask, and I will
>be glad to answer ;-)

It would be more accurate to say I read what you had to say and
responded according to the information you gave us.. When
someone who wants to be the submissive in a relationship posts
here, I make an assumption that it is their/your desire to be a
"true" submissive. If I thought you were asking for advice on
how to pretend to be submissive I wouldn't bother responding.

So there's no need to go on the defensive. My response was
intended to let you hear yourself. Perhaps you know what you
mean by it, but judging from the responses I heard, and others
heard, you say something else. That in itself should indicate to
you that you are not communicating clearly.

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December 6, 2007

the need to be told

posted by: slavetori/ponytori
posted on: Thu, 6 Dec 2007 12:29:07 -0800 (PST)

In the revised version of "need to be told", Graham wrote that
he is:

>a good cook, house cleaner, washing ironing, loving caring
>husband, handyman, lover, and loyal to my wife

Graham, if you are truly all of those things already, then you
are already serving her. You are already helping her to lead a
fuller life and have a happy experience... there is no greater
service. You are releasing her from some of the bonds that have
for centuries kept women from becoming all that we can be in
this world.

Graham also wrote:

>I long to be my wife's slave

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December 5, 2007

misguided submissive husband

posted by: GW PM
posted on: Wed, 5 Dec 2007 23:46:10 +0000

Re: C: An understanding wife?

Wow! This is Me! At least, what Pietro Bianchi said could have
been written by me! I really couldn't understand why my attempts
weren't working with my wife of 30 years. Why couldn't she
understand my desire to have her dominate me? It seems so
"normal", especially with a domineering wife to begin with!

Until I read Madamplz' post. What a revelation! Hit me over the
head with a brick! What Madamplz said made so much sense, I
don't know why I didn't see it before. Probably thinking with
the wrong head?

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November 24, 2007

need to be told, sat on, trampled

posted by: Graham
posted on: 24 Nov 2007 09:32:17 -0000

I am a male of 50, I am also a good cook, house cleaner, washing
ironing, loving caring husband, handyman, lover, and loyal to my
wife who is 7 years my junior.

I long to be my wife's slave - to be sat on and trampled. She
say's she is bossy with people at work and doesn't need to be
bossy at home! Which is why l am writing this.

I don't know how to tell her that I need to be told.
If any ladies can help? Please...

An understanding wife?

posted by: Pietro Bianchi
posted on: Fri, 23 Nov 2007 16:12:55 -0800 (PST)

We have been married for 10 years. We love each other and have a
quite satisfactory sex life. Ten years ago I did not know I
liked to be a sub, it came afterwards. Now it has been clear for
at least 5 years. I tried to have her read domestic, Real Women
Don't Do Housework and other soft things. She reads them, just
because I ask. She reads them once, and never again. She also
tries to act like a Dom, but only if she notices that I really
want it. As soon as I cease any mention of D/s... everything
turns vanilla again.

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April 16, 2007

Mating In Captivity

posted by: "Christine" at Ms-Christine.com
posted on: Mon, 16 Apr 2007 10:37:46 +0000


There is some fun stuff at some of the links in this post,
although much of the material discussed here is of a serious
nature to do with working at relationships.

I think much of the material discussed here is likely to be
useful to those struggling with a lack of interest in sex
themselves, or a lack of interest from their partner.

There are also links to material which may be helpful to

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December 1, 2006

ways to be submissive - wife uninterested

posted by: "Lowly Worm" s4591m at hotmail
posted on: Fri, 01 Dec 2006 13:54:46 -0000


I'm looking for ways to be submissive when my wife isn't really

First up I'll confess to having been a lurker for many years.
I've enjoyed the postings, but never felt I had anything to
contribute. Probably the norm that my first post is a request
for help.

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September 21, 2006

making the point?

posted by: "Michael Roberts" a17915
posted on: Thu, 21 Sep 2006 20:48:01 +0000

I am a submissive male from London living in a relationship
where my partner does not understand what this is all about. I
have tried talking to her so many times to explain to her that
this kind of relationship can be so much more rewarding and so
much more intimate but she just sees it as perverse and
degrading, both to me and to herself.

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December 23, 2005

Love and life with my non-dominant wife

posted by: "sub to non-dom"
posted on: Fri, 23 Dec 2005 21:51:32 +0100

As I see a lot of questions from submissive men, who want their
wife to dominate them, I want to explain how my wife and myself
have reached a way of dealing with my submissive side to our
mutual satisfaction.

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October 10, 1996

fantasies came true

posted by: Jet T
posted on: Thu, 10 Oct 1996 17:54:11

In mother's girdles Ken wrote:

>my wife has no interest in BDSM


There are quite a few men I've met lately that have had the same
experience. However, I would like to share a story of a sub male
friend of mine who recently was "discovered" by his wife.

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