From: Angeloftheknight
Date: Thu, 3 Nov 2011 11:13:10 +0000
I am having a few problems getting My husband to submit totally
to Me. I'll give you some background on us in the hope you can
advise me.
My husband and I have only been together 3 years. I'm 41, he is
58. Between us we have 5 children in the house ranging from 17
to 2 years old. My husband has in the past, from what he has
told me, been on line as a male Dom. Although he has never had a
submissive partner in the D/s sense of the word.
I on the other hand come from strictly vanilla relationships. I
had never heard of bdsm or anything else till I met my husband.
About 18 months ago my husband had a bout of depression and came
to Me to talk. He explained that although he has a dominant mind
his true desire was to be a woman, a submissive sissy. He had
secretly been crossdressing for years to get a sexual kick.
There are 2 major problems I can see at the minute that I don't
know how to deal with. Bearing in mind I have had to learn what
a sissy, submissive, dominant and everything else was to get
this far.
Problem 1. My husband will only submit to things he thinks will
benefit him. It's all about what he can get out of the sexual
side of things. He wants me to be dominant but wants it done his
way and if he doesn't like what I say it doesn't happen.
Problem 2. I cannot get him to stop downloading sissy pics and
pictures of sexy looking woman who he alleges he wants to look
like.
Any ideas, advice or tips would be greatly appreciated.