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# Re: C: semi-public humiliation ideas?
# Re: C: chastity for small penis? x 5
# C: Chastity cloud nine - Goddess addiction
# Re: C: food and body size control in Ds
# Re: C: strap ons and males left hanging
# Re: P: out of the closet Phoenicia NY
# C: Mistress and her maid - part eight
# C: Study of Femdom-related Arousal
# S: Jim's Story - part one

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Re: C: semi-public humiliation ideas?
Date: 19 Oct 2009 22:13:59 -0000
From: kinkmarshall

shywon wrote:

>Take him to MR S leathers on 8th? street and show him all the
>scary dildos and other fun equipment, have him try on some
>tight shorts, halters etc

I have been on my hands and knees several times over the past
few years in Mr S, Ms S (same store) and Stormy Leather with my
Wife/Mistress. It is accepted by everyone there but is very
humiliating for me.

Mistress usually chimes in when the right people are around and
she can verbally humiliate me in front of them. It works on me!

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Re: C: chastity for small penis?
Date: 18 Oct 2009 22:41:01 -0000
From: mech66666

Danielle wrote:

>Does anyone know if the CB 6000 will work any better on really
>small penises

i have the cb60000 and it is pretty secure but, my penis is a
shrinker, and soft is only about 2-3 inches, so it is possible
to pull out the back.

i tried to add the inserts from ksd using the #3 size, the one
that makes the opening the smallest, it really helps, but it
will still wiggle out the back.

maybe a belt type would work? but they are pretty expensive.


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Re: C: chastity for small penis?
From: Vicki
Date: Tue, 20 Oct 2009 03:28:22 +0000


Try the exobelt v series. That will work well for smaller


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Re: C: chastity for small penis?
Date: 20 Oct 2009 09:51:52 -0000
From: subdomonic

Miss Danielle,

i am pretty tiny as well and am about to buy the CB6000s which
is a very short tube to fit the CB series. You may buy either
the whole unit or just a smaller cage. (links display on blog)

i hope that this helps

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Re: C: chastity for small penis?
Date: 21 Oct 2009 00:20:10 -0000
From: slaveboy

Danielle wrote:

>his penis is so small that it won't stay locked on -snip- one
>half inch when flaccid

Hi Danielle, we can make a custom sized device just for you.
Please visit us at chastityheaven to see all our models. We just
went public today with our new, much more professional website!
Please check it out.

Custom sized is the answer for his penis size. Plus, there is no
comparison between the comfort of stainless steel and the
discomfort of plastic... your cage, if purchased from us, will
be custom made by a fine craftsman. We've been told they are
works of art.

I am still in mine after more than 4 months and it's still just
as comfortable now as it was when I put it on on June 15th! I
could never do that in my CB-2000 or Curve.

Independent reviews will be coming out in the coming weeks and
months, and I will keep readers updated when they do, but trust
me, a device from us will serve your needs well. Thanks!



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Re: C: chastity for small penis?
Date: 31 Oct 2009 02:51:44 -0000
From: Trained

Danielle wrote:

>anyone know if the CB 6000 will work any better on really small
>penises, i.e., one half inch when flaccid.

For a small penis you might need to resort to a piercing to hold
it in place. My penis is about that size, and if I try I can
push it all in when flaccid, so escape would be easy. A piercing
in the end of the penis would be required to keep the penis in
any cage.

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C: Chastity cloud nine - Goddess addiction
Date: 30 Oct 2009 00:21:45 -0000
From: slaveboy

In "Chastity Question, Is "Milking" Just The Myth That I Think
It Is
" I wrote:

>Ever experience "tingling" throughout your whole body along
>with sexual or sensual thoughts?

David replied:

>This always happens to me when I'm subjected to prolonged
>arousal without ejaculation being permitted. It's the best and
>probably the only 'buzz' I get without chemicals, and as I only
>use tobacco and alcohol, and do not want to seek out any other
>chemical "buzz" I highly recommend the buzz or high from
>prolonged "prickteasing"

David, I have been meaning to reply to this since I read it. I'm
so glad to hear this. I have been on cloud nine a lot recently
and I almost feel as if I'm floating at times. I can be out
grocery shopping and see an attractive woman, or I can be home
with my wife and I get such a strong "high" that it really feels
like a drug.

It has only gotten stronger. Going on four and a half months of

I'm becoming addicted to it and it is teaching me the art of
equanimity, accepting my Mistress' decisions without much regard
for what I might want. I feel very malleable and even tempered.

I have found that I really can put my Mistress' wishes before my
own and do so with an even temperament, caring little for my own
wants. It has turned my Mistress into my Goddess. Pleasing her
has become a goal in and of itself.

I would have thought that longer term chastity would be
extremely frustrating, but that seemed to pass as these natural
high feelings have taken over much of my day. It's like being in
a good mood almost constantly

It's a good thing to feel this way and it's a great thing to see
how long term chastity also affects my Wife. She seems to be
really enjoying herself. She recently decided to (once again)
have me sleep on a mat on the floor at the foot of her bed for a
better night's sleep (for her, of course).

private emails also welcome


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Re: C: food and body size control in Ds
Date: 20 Oct 2009 02:57:11 -0000
From: Sooxa

JockTrainee190 wrote:

>I'm a gay man and have extensive experience in having my food
>and body size controlled by dom gay-bi male trainers and would
>very much like to talk about it with someone.

Hey JockTrainee190, well I am woman and I see that you need
someone to talk to about your experiences, I think you want to
talk about this with another person who is passing by this
too... but if you want I may help you, if not it's fine.

take care, see ya!

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Re: C: strap ons and males left hanging
Date: 28 Oct 2009 14:57:18 -0000
From: slaveboy chastityheaven

Madamplz wrote:

>repost it for me and I'll give it my fullest attention.

Thanks, but I've apparently deleted it. Oh, well... :-(

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Re: P: out of the closet Phoenicia NY
From: Madamplz
Date: Mon, 19 Oct 2009 19:00:40 EDT

pussikat steve wrote:

>What about a job as a shoe salesman?

Christine replied:

>I assume that was a joke.

Actually, I was going to write in that I'd met a submissive with
a foot/shoe fetish at an upscale department store. I think I may
have posted about it here quite a long time ago.

He used to fall all over himself trying to serve me, positioning
himself in what appeared to him to be my path, which I
frequently changed just to see for how long he would follow me
around waiting to be asked to get a pair of shoes for me to try

When he would put the shoes on my feet he became very
deliberate, (ritualistic, in fact) in the way he would kneel at
my feet, hold my foot, slide the shoe on, etc. Even his
positioning at my feet was very deliberate - eyes down, knees
slightly parted, etc.

A vanilla woman probably would not have noticed but I'm certain
any dominant woman would've picked up on that naughty boy's self-

I'd imagine if the submissive was subservient enough and
attractive enough to the lady that it might be a productive way
to meet a dominant woman.

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C: Mistress and her maid - part eight
From: sissy maid wendy
Date: Wed, 21 Oct 2009 05:36:08 +0000

Mistress and her maid - part eight

First part is at:- Wonderful visit - Mistress and her maid

Since the last visit the sissy maid had been required not to
have an orgasm, masturbation was permitted but no finishing, so
to speak.

The first three or four days were very hard, but as the days
went on it seemed very natural not to cum without her owner's
permission and not to have an orgasm without a member of the
superior sex being present.

On the last occasion when the maid broke this rule she received
50 strokes of the cane/whip/crop from her owner. This was to be
50 for each of the three orgasms - so Madam maintained a further
100 up her sleeve, so to speak, for any future opportunity she
just felt like punishing her maid.

The maid wanted very much to please her owner, so with her
Mistress' permission she purchased a present for her owner. She
chose a red satin blouse and 10 pairs of panties in Madam's
size, the panties ranged from every day type to sheer and very
sexy, in many colours. The maid also purchased a bottle of pink
champagne and some cheese to serve to her Mistress.

The maid arrived and quickly placed most of the items in the
kitchen before joining her Mistress in the lounge for today's

The maid was to clean the two dungeons, and have them ready for

The maid was to dress in the traditional uniform.

The maid was to first dress in full uniform and report to her
owner. The maid lit Madam's cigarette and poured Madam her

Before starting work the maid was taken to the front room by her

Madam, with no nonsense, ordered the maid to bend over the
bench. As the sissy bent over the bench her owner went to the
rack and selected a cane.

Madam then returned and slowly raised the maid's dress and
frilly slips to expose the sissy's bare bottom. With the maid in
high heels black stockings and suspenders - the maid's bottom
looked a very attractive site for the receiving of the cane.
Madam stroked the maid's bottom with her hands and then applied
a series of open handed spankings, around 15 or so to warm the
maid's bottom up for what would come next.

Madam delivered six firm strokes of the cane for one simple
reason - to show the sissy who was boss and the owner of the
maid, including her very full sissy balls that had not now been
emptied for ten days. With the sissy's balls so very full, and
the strokes of the cane, the maid felt so controlled by her
owner and also almost in tears.

Madam's cane slid between the sissy's legs, sliding over her
very very full smooth and freshly shaven sissy's scrotum.

As Madam applied each stroke to the maid's bottom, her sissy
legs buckled, she whimpered, and her eyes swelled. The sissy was
so controlled, she continued to raise her bottom after each
stroke and accepted her Mistress' right to punish at any time.

After the caning had ceased, the sissy maid fell to her knees
and kissed her owner's leather trousers on the spot of the rise
and shape of her vulva, not so much in a sexual way but in a
sign of respect. The sissy struggled to hold back her tears as
she felt so very controlled by her owner, she now depended on
her owner for an orgasm, the sissy was now controlled.

Madam sat on the chair and the maid, now at her feet, removed
Madam's shoes and licked and sucked her owner's toes and feet as
sign of submission.

Madam left the room and the sissy slave maid now cleaned the
play rooms before serving cheese and drinks to her owner and her
owner's husband.

Madam then took the maid to the front of the house to sit on the
veranda. As the maid presented Madam with her gifts, Madam was
so very pleased.

While the maid presented the gifts, the maid sat with her dress
raised so Madam could see the property she now owned. The maid
served Madam her drinks, lit her cigarettes and helped Madam
inspect every detail of the panties she was presenting to her
owner as well as the undertaking that they would all be washed
by hand no matter what sexual juices might be left on them. The
sissy maid might even be milked by one of the panties held in
the Mistress' hand.. something not done to this sissy for a very
long time.

As the Madam relaxed she had her maid practice sucking and
licking a plastic cock, to get the maid ready for further use.

The maid was soon taken back into the dungeon for Madam to use
up some of the 100 stokes she had yet to administer to the maid.
Today it would be twenty firm stokes as the maid laid over the
bench, unrestrained but accepting each stroke from her Mistress.

The maid by this time was in quite a state, upset, almost in
tears and still so very full.

Mistress then sat on a chair as the maid thanked the Mistress
for the correction.

The maid was then ordered to place a condom on her sissy clit
and kneel before her owner. The maid then knelt before her owner
as Madam raised the sissy's skirts and the maid held the skirts
in place as Madam placed her hands under the sissy's skirts and
hand milked her sissy.... From now on there would be none of
this sissy maid stroking her clit to an orgasm but now only
Madam would do the milking - next time the sissy would be
restrained for the milking and would then be led back into the
household to join the house with a condom full...

The maid could only kneel and squirm and Madam emptied the

Madam was very pleased to see the amount of the deposit made by
the sissy in the condom as the sissy exploded.

The maid, still on her knees, whimpered as her owner drained her
and then dismissed her to change back to her male clothes before
being dismissed for the day.

As the maid changed, Madam held the phone as the sissy confessed
to Mistress Gen today's detail of the encounter.

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C: Study of Femdom-related Arousal
Date: 19 Oct 2009 15:41:05 -0000
From: Sophia Toxic

Have you ever wondered?

What makes a sub tick?

How many different "types" of subs are there?

What makes one sub different from another?

What are the "buttons" that make a sub lose self-control?

For punishment purposes, what are the kinky things that a sub
actually finds genuinely unpleasant?

When a domme is trying to get inside a sub's head, what
questions are most useful?

When a sub is seeking out Mistress Right, what should he be
looking for in order to make sure that it's a good match?

Intuitively, we all have basic answers to these questions. A
skilled dominant knows how to quickly determine where a sub's
buttons are. We know that some subs are sissies, some subs are
pain sluts, and other subs are cuckolds.

But I want to go beyond this. I want to scrutinize subs, I want
to put them under the microscope, poke and prod them, and learn
all about their twisted minds.

And then, I want to share the facts with everyone. I want to
sort the subs into categories, grade them on how much they are
susceptible to individual fetishes.

So subs are hence requested to come take this initial version of
the test. After the results have been analyzed, A "personality
profile" _will_ be provided to people who complete the entire
survey and choose to leave an email address or alias.

Please complete the entire test, only completed responses can be
used at this stage.



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S: Jim's Story - part one
Date: Thu, 29 Oct 2009 15:15:42 -0400
From: randolphus

The attached story was written by me.

Thank you for what you have done. I've said this before,
Christine and David's work more than anything else made me
realize I'm only as weird as everyone else.

Very best regards,

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Jim's Story by randolphus

part one

My wife, Sarah is a CFO in a mid-size company. She often works
long hours and I'm left alone in the evenings, and I watch
television, work on our old house, and hang out being somewhat

In November Sarah's dad died after having been a little sick. We
were shocked and her mom decided to move in with us. I began
hanging out with the mom. She was still quite attractive and
more than average sexy. She was not as slim as Sarah, but she
wasn't fat either. I would call her luscious. She has dirty-
blond hair cut shoulder length and I liked the way it moved
around, it attracted attention to her face. She had a very nice
smile but her face changed to look serious by turning her lips
straight or even downward when she asked for something. I know
because I saw that look a lot.

Slowly she began asking me to do things. We both tired of eating
out and it became my job to fix dinner and wash the dishes. I
don't know how that came about but a theory is that it was my
house and I knew where everything was, I was the logical one,
and at first she stayed with me and helped, then less and less.

That led to her claiming the remote. Since I had kitchen duty,
she got into the family room first and picked up the remote.
Then TV watching became 100% less entertaining to me. We watched
lots of shows I guess are made for women. Mostly boring. At
first I was too polite to object.

Then it began when we relaxed "Some coffee would be nice," she
asked after I sat down. Then she would ask: "Bring my slippers
please." Then she would ask: "Please put them on for me." This
was a little erotic but then: "Don't leave my shoes there, put
them away." She also began 'relaxing' beyond what would be
'proper': taking off stockings, adjusting her brassiere cups
even unhooking her bra.

Perhaps I looked, but how could I not. But all the while, I now
realize I was being lured in and she was pulling the line

She asked me to run her a bath. I protested that she could run
her own bath, and immediately regretted my phrasing of it. In
hindsight I now realize how Machiavellian she was. Earlier she
let me watch a rerun of 'Law and Order' instead of another home
remodeling show so I would be interested in the TV and be
reluctant to leave.

Kathleen went immediately to Sarah complaining how 'unpleasant'
and uncooperative I had become. Sarah, nearly in tears asked me
why I couldn't be nice to her mother. Of course I promised I
would be very nice and suddenly out of the blue the words came
from her mouth, "Please try to be obedient".

I nearly exploded "Obedient, what are you talking about, this is
our house and she's a guest!", but I held my tongue.

The evenings were now tense. Who knows what she would ask me to
do, I tried to work later than I normally would. She seemed to
sense that I voluntarily was working overtime because she
questioned me pointedly and I have trouble lying even under
these circumstances.

In December, just two weeks from Christmas our company closed
down. I wasn't in financial trouble because my wife earned a
very good salary and we had been saving for years, and invested
our savings. Kathleen was also very wealthy from her late
husband's pension and insurance proceeds and the sale of their
house. But I needed a job fast or I would spend all day with

It was decided, by Kathleen, but she manipulated it so that it
seemed like Sarah and I decided that I would not seriously look
for work until the first of the new year. We would enjoy the
Christmas to New Year vacation. Then the next day, it turned out
my wife's company was getting a new computer system and she
would have to work during the anticipated Christmas break. Sarah
gaily said: "Kathleen and you will get to know each other very
well during the break".

The very next morning Kathleen came into my bedroom and
announced that there would be no sleeping in. "There is much
work to be done," she said.

She had dismissed the cleaning service because she said: "Since
you aren't working it was silly to pay someone to do what you
can easily do."

This was so ridiculous, first I was out of work temporarily,
second I didn't do house cleaning, and third this was my
vacation. But I'm naked under the sheets and she is standing
above me giving orders. If I kept quiet maybe she would leave.
But she didn't.

She pulled off the sheets, grabbed my arm and almost pulled me
out of the bed. I tried to grab for some clothes but she
interfered: "Here, wear these, no point in wearing dress clothes
to do housework", she said handing me blue jeans and a t-shirt
that she must have searched my wardrobe for, because I didn't
recognize them.

I was embarrassed being naked in front of this woman, she was
totally dressed even wearing stockings and high heels. I
couldn't argue while being naked. Then there was this other
weird thing of becoming aroused, I guess by being naked in front
of this woman. I didn't want her to see the evidence of my

She hurried me into the jeans and almost dragged me out of the
bedroom without any underwear, my keys or wallet. "Let's get
going, no time to waste," she went on.

Downstairs she had me get out the vacuum, but I had to go to the
toilet and I said so, she said, "since this is your first day I
will allow it, be quick."

I was so outraged but I really had to go so I said: "Why thank
you, that's very kind," hoping she didn't hear my sarcasm.

I vacuumed for what seemed like hours. I needed a rest. I walked
into the family room and said: "I'm taking a rest."

Kathleen said nothing but got up and went into the hall. A few
minutes later she came back and said: "You did a fair job in
most of the places but we will go over the rest."

I had difficulty keeping quiet. This was my house and she was
inspecting my work.

After resting for only a few minutes, Kathleen said: "Go into my
bedroom, make the bed, clean the counters and vacuum, I will be
in to inspect your work." I start getting up slowly when she
starts yelling, "Come on lets go, I want action now." And she
grabbed my arm and pulled me up as if I were a child.

I was so outraged, I didn't know what to say, so I just went
along. Her room was a mess, clothes were scattered around the
floor, her underwear, her shoes, the dress she wore yesterday. I
started by picking up the dress and folding it over the chair,
then I picked up her panties, and I don't know what caused me to
do it but I picked it up and sniffed it and of course she walked
in at that moment. I froze like a deer in headlights.

"What are you doing you disgusting dog?" she screamed at me. She
took long steps across the space and slapped me. I stumbled. She
pushed me down and took the dropped panties and rubbed it in my
face all the while yelling at me; "You are a complete pervert,
how could my daughter marry such an animal?"

"I'm sure she will divorce you"

"Nobody would want to live with such disgust"

She was breathing hard and kneeling on my chest. On one level I
was getting aroused having her sitting on me. I was getting a
view of her large breasts, at one point I saw up her skirt to
her panties. She was wearing stockings with garters which were
twisting her panties, I had the disturbing thought that the
bitch was attacking me while I'm studying her underwear.

She took a breath and slapped me again screaming: "Pervert."

I said: "Aren't you overreacting?" And this drove her into
another tirade of slaps and name calling. I decided to be quiet.
Hoping she would cool off and we could talk about the situation.

Kathleen got up and blatantly began adjusting herself from the
exercise. She pulled up her skirt and adjusted her stockings.
She wriggled her brassiere from side to side. Then she says:
"Get finished in here, you better do a good job and then we will

"Yeah you'll talk" I thought. I was getting more and more
aroused. What was going on here I wondered.

I worked hard, I picked up all the clothes and hung her dress,
put stuff in the hamper, cleaned the counters, arranged her
shoes in the closet, made her bed and vacuumed.

I went into the family room and collapsed on the sofa.

Kathleen screamed: "Get up! When you come into a room I'm in you
don't sit or flop down on the sofa!"

I jumped up.

That wasn't good enough for her. She yelled: "Stand straighter,
look straight ahead. There that's better. We'll have to practice

I asked myself, "how did I get into this? What should I do now?"
After what seemed to be a long time she told me I could sit.

She started: "So you like my panties..."

I interrupted: "It was just a moment.."

She yelled: "Don't interrupt me again.."

She said: "So I saw that you liked my panties, and took the
liberty to indulge your disgusting lust when you thought no one
was watching. I have contempt for such people but in your case I
might find a use for such as you."

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