DOMestic Bdsm and Female Domination

From: Angeloftheknight
Date: Thu, 3 Nov 2011 11:13:10 +0000

I am having a few problems getting My husband to submit totally
to Me. I'll give you some background on us in the hope you can
advise me.

My husband and I have only been together 3 years. I'm 41, he is
58. Between us we have 5 children in the house ranging from 17
to 2 years old. My husband has in the past, from what he has
told me, been on line as a male Dom. Although he has never had a
submissive partner in the D/s sense of the word.

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Date: 5 Jan 2010 00:29:57 -0000
From: Fastdrop

I just received my membership recently and would like to say
hello to everyone.

A little about myself I have been married to my wife/Mistress
for 21 years, and about a year ago Mistress decided to take
control.

I no longer work, as I am considered by Mistress as her wife and
maid 24/7. I perform all duties of the traditional wife, and now
wear female clothing full time.

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From: "David" at MsChristine.com / u4ds.com
Date: Mon, 06 Jul 2009 04:08:50 +0100

Disciplinary Wives and the Domestic Discipline they administer.
by David (see "Author's Note" at the foot of this post)

I'm David, I'm a male submissive, and Christine is my lifetime
partner. Christine made me happy by becoming my disciplinary
wife some 30 years ago in 1979. Our 30th anniversary was in June
2009. I mention this to demonstrate that FemDom can lead to
longevity in relationships and it's not just about kinky sex
games in the bedroom.

Rather than talk only about us I want to explore in this brief
article some of the many facets of "Domestic Discipline" and
"Disciplinary Wives". Domestic Discipline may be practiced by
other couples, where the male is defined as the dominant
partner, and I've no doubt that works for some, but here I'm
primarily discussing FemDom relationships.

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Date: Wed, 17 Jun 2009 11:20:10 -0000
From: "MaitresseX"

I have been a member of the DOMestic Yahoo Group for many years.
I have found this list very helpful to me personally/my
relationship. Kudos to Ms. Christine and David.

I have been part of the "scene" for many years as well though
that was not satisfying to me. It is fun to go to fetish/bdsm
parties but it was not real and just role-play at that moment in
time. I have a 24/7 Ds relationship for five and a half years
and I also have slaves/submissives. The 24/7 relationship has
had it ups and downs and outside/real life challenges but I can
safely say that we are now on the right and positive path. Over
the years dominating my slave was very intense in the beginning
and then mixed until now. I am now combining the intensity with
consistent "sessions".

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posted by: MaitresseX
posted on: Thu, 10 Apr 2008 21:20:01 -0000

I would like to share this with the list and get advice or
information about problems with my "slave". We have been
together (currently living together) for almost 5 years. We have
had a real slave/Mistress relationship combined with a normal
relationship. He asked me to marry him in December and last week
said he could not go through with it and then told me he is
rethinking slavery.

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posted by: Madamplz
posted on: Sat, 17 Nov 2007 20:08:16 EST

In Re: C: D/s lifestyle in film and video, Michele wrote:

>Masochists/submissives are more often than not unsuccessful, or
>poorly successful, in love. You are one exception that confirms
>the rule, David.

I would disagree with you here, Michele. I've met couples who
have dropped their guard long enough to share that they engage
in some sort of dominant/submissive play. They may not qualify
it that way but that's what I would call things like cracking
their husband's balls with wooden spoons with the intention of
inflicting pain, or requiring their spouses to serve them in one
way or another, or to dress according to their whims which might
or might not include varying degrees of cross
dressing/feminisation.

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posted by: "steve" pussikat4u2003
posted on: Wed, 21 Mar 2007 15:26:40 -0000

Hi all,

I wonder if others have the same problem as I do i.e. that of
trying to balance the duties of slave with those of being a
companion.

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posted by: "MaitresseX"
posted on: Tue, 20 Feb 2007 04:21:29 -0000

If one has a slave that they are in a relationship with, is it
inappropriate for the owner to command the slave marry his
owner? Do you think that crosses boundaries?

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