DOMestic Bdsm and Female Domination

From: Angeloftheknight
Date: Thu, 3 Nov 2011 11:13:10 +0000

I am having a few problems getting My husband to submit totally
to Me. I'll give you some background on us in the hope you can
advise me.

My husband and I have only been together 3 years. I'm 41, he is
58. Between us we have 5 children in the house ranging from 17
to 2 years old. My husband has in the past, from what he has
told me, been on line as a male Dom. Although he has never had a
submissive partner in the D/s sense of the word.

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Date: 29 Dec 2010 06:22:34 -0000
From: Claire

Hello,

I love all of the ideas here! I met a guy that likes to be
humiliated. I think I can do it, even though I've never done it,
but is it normal to get turned on by them being humiliated?

How can I be pleased sexually and still be humiliating to him?

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Date: 7 Sep 2010 20:45:23 -0000
From: kevin

I found a great system for communicating with a domina, even
during a session. It's the "yes means no, no means yes
technique".

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From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Mon, 13 Jul 2009 04:01:11 +0100

Hello,

In "how to be a better dominatrix" - "Willing to learn" wrote:

>I too am new to this whole thing.. and actually we tried it
>for the first time last night.. and well.. it ended up going
>nowhere...

That's fine, don't worry about it. Think of dominating a
submissive male as like learning to ride a bike (if you'll
excuse the analogy) - do you remember your first time on a
bicycle?

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posted by: "David" at u4ds.com
posted on: Wed, 14 Nov 2007 02:58:11 +0000

Hello,

In (D/s lifestyle in film and video) Michele wrote:

>wouldn't you agree that most submissives do try to top from the
>bottom, to the extent that they wish and hope that the Dominant
>will do to them what they fantasize about - rather than what
>she really wants herself?

No.

Now I'll explain why.

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posted by: storm
posted on: 3 Oct 2007 16:20:06 -0000

I am new to the lifestyle and need some help. I am dominant and
my boyfriend is submissive. He is into D/s and has experience.

Are there any rules about how I'm supposed to treat my sub?

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posted by: Michele
posted on: Fri, 14 Sep 2007 18:38:43 -0400

continuation of "Michele, Kate and Severin"

Severin Explained (sort of).

Kate - the Cool One - didn't ask many questions about Severin
and our unusual relationship, but she was clearly intrigued -
amused and perplexed at the same time.

For her enlightenment, I proceeded to describe the psychology of
a submissive - or rather of my submissive, as they come in many
different flavors.

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