I think you last told us about how much fun your girlfriend was
having with plugging and whipping your penis back in September
2010 in the message she loves to plug my penis and whip my glans.

In that post you mentioned the dull pain in your groin but also
said you had lots of experience with sounds and penis plugs and
had not experienced any serious problems with this.

So, I'm not sure if this pain is something that is causing you
more concern now than it was then?

As David said in 2009 in the thread "Chastity Question, Is "Milking"
Just The Myth That I Think It Is?"

"I think that if you are in any doubt, you should ask your
doctor"

A doctor recently said to me "if it hurts, stop." Pain is the
body's way of telling you something is wrong.

Obviously in bdsm the submissive or masochist often enjoys the
pain and suffering, but you still need to exercise some caution
and always understand what is causing any particular pain and
whether it is something that should cause you to modify your
behaviour.

It's possible that the dull pain or discomfort you are feeling is
being caused by a retrograde ejaculation. This is where your
ejaculate enters the bladder instead of immediately leaving the
body through the penis.

This problem is usually painless and can be harmless. Men with
this problem may notice cloudy urine after sexual intercourse
and there may be a slightly greater risk of infections.

As I explained in the thread "Prostate massage"....

"During ejaculation, contractions of the smooth muscle in the
prostate force the fluid out into the urethra where it mixes
with the rest of the seminal secretions and is carried to the
penis. Prior to ejaculation, ringlike muscles in the part of the
prostate closest to the bladder will tighten to prevent urine
from flowing and to insure that the ejaculate goes where it
should and thus does not pass into the bladder."

If plugging your penis during orgasm disrupts this process your
body may be complaining.

As Pietro wrote in the same "Chastity Question" thread....

"Ejaculation is an 'active' process, where muscles of the
prostate and seminal vesicles contract and the content is
expelled from the gland. This is supposed to avoid the build up
of some toxins inside the gland, and is believed to be the
reason for better prostate health in men with more frequent
ejaculations."

and RobbyLuv72 said in "Chastity health problems"...

"Back pressure on the prostate when cumming and/or not cumming
frequently enough. Causes some of the ejaculate to wind up in
the bladder, which can start an infection. In men, a UTI
generally will involve the prostate as well."

So the advice given by "FlyBoy" in the thread "Prostate Problems"
is something that you should take to heart.

"There is an old rule of thumb; drink 8 glasses of water or 2
liters daily."

In that way the ejaculate that may be going into your bladder
has more urine to rinse it out, and reduce the likelihood of
infections.

As well as more water you may also want to consider drinking
some cranberry juice which is said to be very helpful in
lowering the frequency of such infections.

sincerely,
Christine

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and that she's now thinking of getting one for me.

She says her caning arm is getting tired, and that buying me one
of these would be a kindness to me!

Hope it's not an April Fool - as a caning is worse than a bit of
soft silicone plastic I could surely escape from if I got
desperate enough.

sincerely,
David at Ms-Christine.com

You can read my own (now very old) article "why" at
http://www.mschristine.com/why.shtml

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and the contact postal address on the web site is the same.

Some of the procedures Jim was required to do motivated me to
such an extent that I have mentioned them to my wife. She would
not take the time to read your story, but was interested in what
I had to say, and pleased that I have suggested additional ways
to serve her and do more chores for her. Thank you.

I hope that you can continue as Betty's new job in Washington
leaves a big question mark in my mind, and perhaps the minds of
others.

tony

>"Is there a way to subscribe to it via email?"

Yes. For Admin matters please check the right hand menu of the
blog, where you can click through to various Admin messages and
Categories like Receive Email Digests.

Or see my recent message "better than the email digests"

sincerely,
David

Perhaps Madame only made her comment in order to post a link to
her own web site?

It's not WHAT she tells me to do - it's HOW she says it...

Be confident, assertive, he will love it... and so will you.

Re: penis plug urethral play

My wife has a fetish about controlling my ejaculation.

One of her favourites is to plug my urethra at the start of a
session then ride my hard shaft and have several orgasms. I will
feel my spunk build up then shoot to immediately start a pulsing
spasm which goes on and on gradually subsiding to leave a dull
pain in my crotch.

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I guess if you are a reader of Christine's site you are turned
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My Owner "Wife" and Her Friends particularly Her Real Man Lovers
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Thank you....
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I just came across a new chastity cage designed for all day use.
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I want my sub to get used to only being allowed to orgasm by
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read part one here

Mistress gently rubbed the cane against my penis tip, the two
other guys in the pen were jealous, each man craving her
attention.

"You are all useless pigs understand?"

"Yes mistress," we answered in unison.

"You two lick boots now."

Please consider my humble account for publication.

Mistress Helena - part one

I have been serving Czech mistress Helena for the last year at
her apartment which she shares with her boyfriend Matt. It is
such a privilege to serve and contribute to her expensive
lifestyle which she richly deserves. I have gone as frequently
as my income has allowed.

The Vacation
by "randolphus"

Part Eight

Now it Works

When Lisa left, Carol told me what we needed. Carol drove
because I no longer had a car and we bought the material at a
local hardware store. In the store Carol had a poodle collar in
her hand and was eyeing me and I stood far enough away so she
wouldn't measure it up against my crotch.