Do Mistresses ever TAKE a "vanilla" male?
From: fem fan
Date: Fri, 20 May 2011 10:20:13 +0000
Hello to all,
A little about myself first, I am a mid 30's male based in the
southwest of England (M4 corridor) who has, to date, never
submitted to a dominant female (of any type) even though this
stokes an almost uncontrollable fire within me.
I subscribed to DOMestic some time ago to find out if there WERE
real dominant women out there who got their kicks from knowing
and revelling in their absolute superiority over males, or
whether this was just a crazy fantasy that was only ever met by
I have to say I was extremely happy to find that there were
definite yings to my yang out there, so I would like to thank
the readership for showing me I'm not alone.
I would also like to metaphorically bend a knee to all the true
mistresses out there - if you don't mind my saying so, you
terrify and excite me in equal measure. Given my relatively
average normal life, it is an odd thing to know that if I were
to ever meet you, your mere existence, your attitude, could turn
me into a mindless plaything while in your presence, and your
power over me would be absolute.
However, the point of this mail is to try to start a thread, in
the hope that one, might lead to another, and we can get this
great institution back up and running as I, for one, miss it! So
in that vein I guess I have two main questions.
Do Mistresses ever TAKE control? and where can they be found?
Firstly, have any of the dominant women out there ever seen and
desired a "vanilla" male, and decided they wanted him, and over
the course of time used their superiority to turn this vanilla
male into their slave or plaything? Does this ever really
happen? And if so, how?
Women with this attitude, who pursue their goals with absolute
authority and power are, to me, the epitome of true dominance...
but do they exist? I realize that ultimately the exchange will
be mutual, but is the submission ever created and extracted by
I am sure there are a lot of stories of subs requesting to be
dominated, and ending in a dominated situation, but is there a
flipside to that coin, where the female starts by requesting
power plays where she is in the ascendent and slowly, the power
shifts and develops to a point where she demands it and the
relationship changes to one of a true mistress and slave?
The second question, which I guess is a little more personal, is
how do you spot a dominant woman? Are there any telltale signs
that might tell someone that the woman they are looking at is
one who they should bow their head to? I understand that in the
gay community there are "hanky" codes - is there any such thing
in the Femdom community?
To be honest, I'd just like to meet and talk to a truly dominant
woman, know that what she talks about, what she enjoys, she
TRULY enjoys. To be able to discuss who I am openly, and know
that the woman I am talking to understands, and even enjoys what
we are discussing. A woman who knows and embraces the fact that
she is superior to males, a woman who views men she takes as
inferiors, as possessions and playthings.
To be in a situation where we both know that she has all the
power and I am not worthy of getting to my knees and cleaning
her boots with my tongue, am not worthy to offer my mouth for
her pleasure or even her convenience...
Does anybody out there know how I would find these true
Apologies for the length of the post, but hopefully you may find
something of worth in there, or something you might decide
worthy of a response.
Humbly from his knees before his superiors
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