chaste slavery triangle - polyamory problems
Date: Fri, 22 Oct 2010 13:36:03 +0200 (CEST)
I don't post often. But I read all of your messages :)
I have a question: Two years ago a very new and exciting part of
my relationship with my love started. She fell in love with
another man. It was a sexual rollercoaster the first year. They
were quite cruel with me, they kept me orgasmless for months
using a steel tube, and they were passionately in love with each
other and having a lot of fun. Intoxicating circumstances I can
But, the last months much of the playing with me has stopped.
Both are in love with each other, and it seems to have become a
very vanilla relationship. The idea of keeping me chaste, and
only using me as a servant, was really a turn on, for her and
for him. But this disappeared. They seem bored with this game.
She has said on occasions she wanted me more masculine and more
like a lover... but for me it is difficult, to change back. The
fact that she has a lover puts me in a subservient state of
mind, all the time. At the same time, she is very much used to
another way of love making and acts really spoiled in that area.
She does not want to keep me chaste anymore, and it seems she
wants to take off the rough edges of the triangle, preferring to
have two 'normal' equal lovers.
I would like to have some advice from you. Perhaps someone had
similar experiences? How do I go about it. How do I interest him
or her in playing with me again, in one way or another? It is
plenty for me to just know that they enjoy keeping me a
subservient and chaste slave. I feel I need that kind of
domination to enjoy the triangle.
I hope you can help... it would be much appreciated :)