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C: DS relationship resources
Date: 18 Apr 2009 09:02:48 -0000
From: macK

In "dominant female / submissive male lifestyle" yoniman wrote:

>Interested in how i can be a better submissive

I'm barely learning this DS relationship and I hear that it can
be a beautiful thing between two people? Do you have any
resources on how I can do research to please my Domme that would
impress her? Again I am 101 very new but would love to learn to
please my princess. Could you help?

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Re: C: DS relationship resources
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Sat, 18 Apr 2009 21:11:28 +0100

Hello,

macK wrote:

>Do you have any resources on how I can do research to please
>my Domme that would impress her?

I think just the fact that you have asked the question on
DOMestic is a good start. Hopefully she will be happy with the
idea that you really want to please her.

As to the resource question. You've come to the right place
DOMestic is all about relationships, and DOMestic is the place
to do your research.

If the search box on the front page of the blog doesn't
immediately help you, then I would suggest you ask some
questions here and I've no doubt you will get some helpful
suggestions.

>I am 101 very new but would love to learn to please my
>princess. Could you help?

Yes.

If you tell us a bit more about both of you and your lives it
may give us some clue as to what to suggest to get you started.
For example:- Do you live together? How long have you been
together? Do you both go out to work?

Have you asked your princess what would please her?

sincerely,
Christine

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C: ManTran - Ball ring
Date: 15 Apr 2009 18:36:01 -0000
From: Jess

In Anniversary Surprise, Shoekisser wrote:

>ball ring. This one is high tech, wireless -snip- Any time a
>woman asks about it, I hand her a ManTran business card.

ManTran I could not find a link or any other info. Ball ring -
Where can I get one?

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Re: C: ManTran - Ball ring
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com
Date: Sat, 18 Apr 2009 21:36:22 +0100

Hello,

In Anniversary Surprise, Shoekisser wrote:

>ball ring. This one is high tech, wireless -snip- Any time a
>woman asks about it, I hand her a ManTran business card.

Jess replied:

>ManTran I could not find a link or any other info.

When Shoekisser sent in his "fictional" story I told him that
the name ManTran.org was a good one and I predicted that folk
would want to click on a link for the organisation.

Of course, ManTran.org was also fiction, and at the time of
writing Shoekisser has not yet registered the domain ManTran.org

Jess asked:

>Ball ring - Where can I get one?

If you are looking for the kind of high tech wireless device
described in the story, you would want to start in the
Electrical Play section in the right hand menu of the DOMestic
blog. There are several sub sections there which may interest
you.

The "Dog Shock Collars" link is about the devices which are most
easily obtained in pet stores and are most like the one described.

You may also want to take a look at "Add-ons for Chastity
Devices" if you want to keep a man locked up and chaste while
zapping him.

sincerely,
Christine at u4ds.com

Renew or get your DOMestic password

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C: new cbt ideas and human clothesline
Date: Fri, 10 Apr 2009 10:49:17 -0700 (PDT)
From: Victoria Markham

I have just returned from Africa after several gruelling months
and am trying to catch up with some of my old friends. The
totally humiliated Daniel, who served me as my human clothesline
should get in touch and also Glencam whose message intrigued me.
I am also interested in any new cbt ideas from lady readers.

I think it would be a nice gesture by your male readers if they
were to give some money to the Red Cross (I work for an aid
agency) in gratitude to the female contributors who give of
their time to help them on your site.

Keep up your excellent work Christine and don't give david too
hard a time!

Please publish email as I am happy to be contacted privately if
preferred.

Victoria.
victoriatrix7@yahoo.co.uk

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Re: C: topping from the bottom - what is it?
Date: 10 Apr 2009 02:27:47 -0000
From: Soumis

micheleFFS wrote:

>it hurt so much I asked her to please hit me somewhere else.
>She refused. I tried to endure, but I was beyond my comfort
>zone. I finally said "I'm using my safeword for that spot, not
>the whole scene," -snip- Was I topping from the bottom

Michele,

That doesn't sound like topping from the bottom to me; what you
described was wanting to continue the scene but being physically
unable to continue with that part of it.

I've always considered topping from the bottom to be a matter of
a sub attempting to direct a domme, a kind of passive-aggressive
manipulation where the sub is in effect pretending to submit. He
or she may not even be aware of how they're attempting to hijack
the session. It's far more complicated than just saying, "Please
don't do that, it's too much." Likewise, I can't imagine too
many dommes being amused by it.

Soumis

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Re: C: Devotional Sex
Date: Sun, 12 Apr 2009 03:21:18 -0700 (PDT)
From: john henry

Today I browsed the Devotional Sex site about devotional dating
and devotional relationships.

I realized that I have always wanted to be a Knight as expressed
in this site and would like to know if anyone has any practical
knowledge or desire to explore this with me.

John

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Re: C: How to escape Mother-in-law?
Date: 6 Apr 2009 22:15:53 -0000
From: houseboy43

Daniel Gold wrote:

>she will show my pics to my family and friends too. What
>should i do?

Ummm... are we supposed to pretend that we believe this is a
real problem rather than your fantasy?

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Re: C: How to escape Mother-in-law?
Date: 7 Apr 2009 02:00:37 -0000
From: Grape

Daniel Gold wrote:

>mother-in-law has asked me to dress like a girl for her every
>week or else she will show my pics to my family and friends
>too. What should i do? Are all mother-in-laws like her?

Yeah fella that's pretty much all mother in laws for you. Your
best option is to out yourself on national television in a cute
little school girl outfit, its the only way your life will ever
go back to normal. But don't go to Oprah, she will only make
things worse.

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Re: C: How to escape Mother-in-law?
Date: 7 Apr 2009 18:46:09 -0000
From: Michele

Daniel, this behavior is typical not only of all mothers-in-law
but of sisters-in-law and sisters as well, not to mention aunts
and grandmothers. That's the way we women are, we enjoy nothing
more than dressing up guys and laughing at them. You'll have to
live with it, Daniel. It's useless to try to run, even wearing
sensible shoes.

Oh by the way Daniel's message was e-mailed on April 2nd. Could
it be a slightly belated April fool letter?

Michele

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Re: C: How to escape Mother-in-law?
Date: 8 Apr 2009 14:13:30 -0000
From: stevesatinlover

Daniel Gold wrote:

>Now, mother-in-law has asked me to dress like a girl for her
>every week

This doesn't seem like a problem! Sounds like a dream come true.
She will slowly increase the kinkiness of each session until you
are totally under her spell. If she is experienced in True
Domination, eventually you will wonder how you ever got along
without her.

Finding someone who allows/commands/enjoys your TVism is a
treasure to be loved and obeyed, not viewed as a problem. I wish
I had your "predicament! Care to change places?

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Re: P: dominant wife seeking couples with similar interests
Date: 6 Apr 2009 21:44:24 -0000
From: subiam

surfer slave wrote:

>My Mistress and I also live in NorCal and would like to
>socialize.

My wife and I live in NorCal but have been very private about
our wife-led marriage. Our first foray out into the "community"
together is probably going to be via the Northern California
Ladies' Tea and Discussion Society.

For us, that seems like a good way to get "out" and meet others
with similar interests.

Additionally, you might want to look into some of the newer
social networks that have sprung up that support our alternative
lifestyles. My wife doesn't go on these sites but I'm on FetLife
and FemDommeSociety:

user 144526 on FetLife

subiam on FemDommeSociety

They each seem to serve their purposes and they give you options
to build a network of "friends".

subiam (to Queen-T)

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Re: P: dominant wife seeking couples with similar interests
Date: 9 Apr 2009 07:07:58 -0000
From: Rachel

I tried responding to you directly but I guess it did not work.

I have been in a femdom relationship for the last 10 years with
my husband. We live in the Palo Alto area. If you are
interested, we can meet for lunch at a mall and then decide if
it makes sense to get together with our slave hubbies.

We have not done this before as my hubby is very concerned about
running into someone from business or social circle. I would
love to find 2-3 compatible femdom couples in the area. It will
be good to openly talk with another dominant wife.

I occasionally chat online with other dominant women but all of
them are out of area.

best
Rachel

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Re: X: Fictionmania
From: VickieTern
Date: Tue, 14 Apr 2009 17:27:56 EDT

Heather Helm wrote:

>I was just wondering the status of Fictionmania

Sorry to be so late answering your inquiry, Heather, but I've
been away with limited access to the Net.

Fictionmania's main functions are now restored and are being
beta tested by the Task Force, and seem to be working fine.
(stories can be readily accessed by those with a special test
URL).

The three main programmers (one of them Mindy, FM's originator,
helping even though terribly busy running her business in these
hard times) want to finish the job and be certain all of the
functions work - such as the multi-search protocol and the
hyperboard - before opening the site to the world again at
fictionmania.tv (new tv domain).

Converting the site from Steve Jobs' discourse to Bill Gates's
has been more problematic and arduous than anyone originally
imagined, but it's nearly done, with program backups to assure
that server failures will never again separate strong men from
their desire to be satisfyingly, humiliatingly feminine.

Vickie

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S: In The Bank Manager's Cupboard. Part Twenty-two
Date: Sat, 18 Apr 2009 20:39:14 +0100
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com

Previous issues are at:-
http://u4ds.com/stories/meeting_and_seduction/

In The Bank Manager's Cupboard - by Ms. Christine
Copyright 1986-2009 Christine and David Stevenson

Part Twenty-two

He little realised that Karin's video system had the
benefit of such a sensitive microphone, and that she
had left it switched on as she was drifting peacefully
towards sleep. As he whimpered with pleasure, Karin
heard him. It brought her out of her warm reverie and
angrily she switched the light back on, catching him on
tape. He was sniffing at her knickers and abusing
himself. Totally absorbed in lust.

He stopped, shocked, and looked at the wall lens. The
speaker warned, "Yes I am watching you. You disgusting
little pervert. COLD WATER, BED AND BEHAVE YOURSELF
WERE YOUR INSTRUCTIONS. I want no more of this public
toilet behaviour." This time she left the light on, and
the video recorder remained on guard.

As David tossed and turned trying to get to sleep he
little realised that Karin was now deep in blissful
slumber. She had turned off the monitor and left the
recorder running, confident of her control she relaxed
and returned to dreamland. David's erection had
returned and wouldn't go away. But he didn't dare to
risk wanking, even under the covers, in case she was
watching. Eventually, still hard, he slept.

David awoke to a buzzing from the speaker. As soon as
he was roused Karin switched off the alarm tone and
ordered, "Monday morning, pervert. Up and get my coffee
ready."

He went to the cupboard to get his uniform and the
speaker stopped him, "Pronto buster! You should have
dressed earlier, it's too late now."

The electronic door locked clicked as he approached it,
and he found the door unlocked. He made his way to the
kitchen, scurrying quickly through Karin's bedroom,
ashamed of his nakedness. He found a menu pinned above
the work surface in the kitchen, and laid the table
with her breakfast requirements. When her table was
prepared, and her coffee ready, he returned to her room
to report, "Your breakfast is ready Madam."

She turned to face him, her dressing gown open, beneath
she was already dressed in her black lingerie. "Fetch
your restrainer," Karin ordered.

He scuttled away to return quickly with the restrainer.
She strapped him in as before. Taking hold of his
genitals from behind him, she frog marched him before
her into her bathroom.

In the bathroom was a perspex toilet which she
indicated he was to place his head into. He hesitated
and she slapped his buttocks with the palm of her hand.
"Don't try my patience after the way you behaved last
night," she warned.

As he lay on the floor, placing his head in the slot
provided, he couldn't believe she really intended what
he suspected. Was there no limit to the lengths she
would go to?

His neck was supported by the rubber beading around the
semi circular base of the slot. His head lay in the
rounded depression on the floor of the box like
construction. She slid another perspex panel into the
slot his neck had entered. This panel also had a
rubberised seal which fitted neatly around his neck.
Karin lowered the top, and then the toilet seat into
place and secured the whole arrangement with catches,
locking him in place. David begged, "Please don't do
this to me Madam, I beg you."

Karin interrupted, "Absolute silence wanker, I'll tell
you when you can speak. You behaved like a toilet
pervert last night, so I'm going to treat you like
one."

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