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Re: C: he is rethinking slavery
From: Madamplz
Date: Tue, 6 May 2008 01:10:22 EDT

Avril wrote:

>I have removed the comfort by telling him I won't put up with
>this forever and I have my limits. I am not playing games with
>him but giving him a bit of leash for the time being.

>There are factors coming into play here: he is 52 yo, has a
>very challenging job, has really lived slavery with me for an
>extended period of time. We had family interference (they don't
>know about slavery) and his business partner. He was also
>married 27 years and divorced 2 years ago. Now slavery and a
>new marriage. Now he has a pseudo mid-life crisis.

If I have a dog that pulls against his leash, and therefore, my
arm, giving him a bit of leash is the last thing I'd do. He'd
only be further away from me pulling against his leash. Rather,
I'd give him a hard snap of the leash every time he even starts
to pull against it until he learns that pulling against his
collar causes him discomfort, not me.

With all due respect, once he heard you say "I won't put up with
this forever" his brain most certainly filled in "but for now
I'm going to put up with it". He's going to hold you to that for
as long as is humanly possible. Why wouldn't he? I know you
didn't mean to but you just took a step backward and drew a new
line in the sand. You lowered the bar. You sacrificed your
comfort for his.

Training is always going on whether you're training your dog, or
your dog is training you. You just taught your dog that you will
jump through a hoop. If you do not turn this around immediately
he's going to hold that hoop up for you again until you are the
slave in the relationship regardless of who wears the collar.

I would tell you the same thing if this was a vanilla
relationship because this is a relationship issue not a
Mistress/slave issue. If one party should suddenly go into a
state of inertia the relationship can only move forward if the
other party moves.

I'm not sure I follow your line of reasoning as stated above.
I'm unsure of how his age would figure in to his slavery, nor
whether or not his family or business partner knows the nature
of your relationship, nor what his former marriage has to do
with anything. What I hear you saying is that you're willing to
excuse him based on a "pseudo" mid-life crisis, another term I
don't understand. What is a pseudo mid-life crisis?

Are you saying he's pretending to have a mid-life crisis, or
that what's causing his crisis is too much thinking? I'm
thinking the latter is what's true. He needs a virtual face slap
to snap out of it.

You say he divorced two years ago. I don't recall in your first
post if you said how long you were together but if it's less
than one year then I would think it's too early to be
considering marriage at all. Be that as it may, all the other
factors you mention above really have nothing to do with
anything.

If he's telling you these things should be accepted by you as
some sort of legitimate reason for bringing the relationship to
a stand still, then hear what he's really telling you. He's
saying that he's put you last in line behind all those other
things. He would only tell you that for one of two reasons.
Either it's the truth, in which case you should call a moving
van immediately, or you've given him a reason to believe that
YOU feel it's okay for him to put you last.

If you give him that choice he's going to take the path of least
resistance. From your statements above my guess is that the
latter is true.

You have confirmed the very thing you do not want him to
believe, that you are willing to wait because he is what you've
decided you want. Right now, he's the one with the power in the
relationship. You can change that or not but it would be a
mistake to believe that what you did will get you closer to your
goal.

The next thing that is likely to happen is that your tolerance
level will go down because you didn't get what you wanted; he
did. You're likely to become more angry about that as time goes
on as he will continue to put you last. He's most likely going
to perceive your anger as a loss of love.

You said "I told my slave it is a gift that I will NOT give
unless he is willing to accept it. Now he is very hungry for it
and I throw him a bone."

Do you mean you're not dominating him or you are dominating him?
I'm not sure. Are you saying all he has to do to get your
attention is show you he wants it? So, he gets you dominating
him whether or not he moves forward in solidifying your marriage
plans? I don't think that's going to produce the result you'd
stated you wanted in your previous post.

When I talk about a Plan B what I mean is a plan that is likely
to produce the result I want when Plan A has failed. I don't
think you have a Plan B at this point. You've only put your Plan
A on hold and Plan A will most certainly continue to produce the
same result - inertia.

Still, I wish you the best. I like seeing women get what they
want by watching what their partners do, as opposed to listening
to what their partners say. I think you may be listening too
hard and not seeing enough.

Madam

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Re: C: Malta
Date: 10 May 2008 06:21:42 -0000
From: sam

tootsieboy131 wrote:

>Are there any list members living in Malta?

Christine,

please ask this couple to get in touch with me.

Sam

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Re: C: Malta
Date: Sat, 10 May 2008 16:51:02 +0000
From: "Christine" at u4ds.com

Hello,

Sam wrote:

>please ask this couple to get in touch with me.

You'll need to ask them yourself. And you might want to give
them something by way of a reason to do so.

See the direct contact guidelines at

http://u4ds.com/how_to_get_in_direct_contact.shtml

sincerely,
Christine at u4ds.com

Renew or get your DOMestic password at
http://u4ds.com/password

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P: submissive in Roanoke Virginia
Date: 7 May 2008 22:25:30 -0000
From: dumpling

hello and most humble of greetings.

i am a submissive swm in the Roanoke Va. area seeking a Domme to
serve unconditionally and become collared and her property.

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S: A New Beginning for Laurence - Act 2
From: "Red Rogue"
Date: Wed, 30 Apr 2008 22:44:45 +0100

A New Beginning for Laurence - Act 2

Several hours later, a frightened, sore and exhausted Laurence
Hobbs was released from his restraints. He did not complain as
he slid to the floor and was soon revived by a bucket of cold
water. He was placed in a strait-jacket and led to a small
padded cell. The only furniture that he could see in the dim
light was the plastic bucket that he was told to use as his
toilet.

Larry did not sleep very well. He hurt like hell and was utterly
confused. How long had he been here? Why were they doing this to
him? How could he get out of this horrible place?

After what seemed like an eternality, the door of his cell was
suddenly flung open and as he blinked his eyes in the bright
light, the only thing that he could see from his crouched
position was a pair of widely parted female legs.

"Get up you little shit", Tina commanded as she caught him by
the hair and dragged him out into the brightly lit room.

The subjects were always restrained in a strait-jacket for the
first two or three days, until they had been softened up a
little. Larry now had his jacket removed and without a whimper
of protest, he allowed himself to be restrained by the wrists
and ankles at the whipping frame. His language was now a lot
more timid as he did his best to answer the endless and
repetitive questions.

Megan was kind to him, except when he really displeased her.
Eighteen year old Tina, on the other hand was someone who
frightened him a lot. She seemed to take particular delight in
whipping him without mercy. Thankfully, he was dealing with
Megan for most of the time.

After almost three hours of interrogation, Larry was released.
Megan reassured him that he was doing the right thing. The
bright lights and the video cameras had been turned off and
Megan fed him a tasty snack instead of the diet of bread and
water that he was getting used to. She took his throbbing cock
in her hand and gave him a well earned reward.

Tina was back, all too soon though, shouting loudly as she held
the strait-jacket to his face and kicked him to a standing
position.

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Larry had no idea how long he had been confined in his cell.
There was no daylight and the place was completely sound-proof.
He was weak and confused as he was helped out of the cell by
Megan and Tina. He made his way towards the restraints that he
had come to hate.

Then, he heard Megan's soft voice behind him. "Come on over
here and sit down pet. Would you like a beer?"

Larry sat down between his two female captors as instructed and
gulped down a little of the cool drink. Tina ran her hand
through his hair and kissed his neck. She then took the can from
his hand and drew his attention to some papers that she had
placed on the coffee table in front of them. She had a kind and
gentle look on her face.

"There are some things here that we want you to sign love", she
said in her soft and feminine voice.

Larry added his signature to all of the legal looking documents
and as soon as he had complied, Tina handed back his can of
beer. She then slid her hand between his legs.

Maybe she was not so bad after all, Larry thought. After he had
been brought to a climax, Larry was encouraged to clean up and
stand in the middle of the room. Much to his relief, there was
no strait-jacket this time. Instead, Megan produced a plastic,
cage-like device and Tina placed it over his prick and balls.
The chastity device was locked in place and Megan kissed him
gently on the cheek before she led him back to his cell.

Over the following days, Larry put his signature to many
documents. Most of them were accounts of confessions that he had
made during periods of questioning; others were legal documents
but he never got the chance to know what they contained. The
endless filming continued and he hated the bright lights and
cameras almost as much as Tina's cane.

Larry had to agree that he had done some really bad things and
that his life would be much better after he had completed the
programme. He was still naked apart from the horrible device
that painfully restrained his cock. The beatings had become less
frequent and less severe though. The more confessions that Larry
signed, the better things seemed to get for him. Now, he would
sign almost anything that would ease the pain.

"Come on out love. You have a visitor", Megan beamed as she
opened the cell door.

Larry adjusted his eyes to the bright light and slowly lifted
his head.

"Hi dear. How are you?", called the familiar voice.

"Stand up pet and let your sister see you", Tina demanded. "You
know the drill. Come out here and stand up straight, hands on
top of your head".

Larry desperately wanted to cover his nakedness as Tina removed
his prick cage. He could feel his sister's piercing eyes examine
him from head to toe but he did not dare to move. Finally, Laura
stepped forward and wrapped her arms around him, giving him a
huge hug.

"I'm so proud of you love. I knew you could do it. Sit down here
and let me see you. There is so much that we have to catch up
on".

As Larry sipped the last of his tea, Laura squeezed his hand and
looked into his eyes.

"There are some things that we have to talk about pet", she
said. "You don't mind if we have a little chat?"

Larry shook his head in agreement.

"You know you have not been well dear. Do remember when the
doctors came to see you after you came in here. They examined
you for hours... you must remember. Well Lar, they think that I
should take care of you until you're better. You're just not
able to look after your affairs right now".

"But.... but", Larry blurted out.

"Don't worry about a thing pet. This is the Court Certificate
that makes me your legal guardian and I promise to take really
good care of you. A nice lady has agreed to buy your Ferrari,
although it's hard to get a good price for that type of car at
such short notice".

Larry shook his head in disbelief.

"Please Laura. I'm fine and well able to look after myself. Just
get me out of this place immediately and whatever you do, don't
let anyone touch my car".

"Sorry Lar. We had to clear everything out along with the
furniture. The house is goin' under the hammer at the end of the
month and it has to be a clean sale".

"You can't sell my house Laura. It's in my name. It's our family
home. You just can't do it. You have no right..."

"Ssssssh. Don't be getting yourself all excited pet. Do you not
remember signing the house over to me? Same time as we
transferred your share of the business? Don't you worry about a
thing love. As soon as you're well enough, you'll be coming to
live with me. Oh, by the way, do you want any little memento or
keepsake before the auction. I'm very sorry pet but all of your
personal stuff has to be cleared out. I'm giving most of it to
charity and the rest can go in the rubbish skip."

"Listen Laura. I'm begging you. Please get me out of here. I'm a
different person now and I know how much pain I caused you. Just
get me out of here and I'll show you how much I've changed."

"I know you have pet. Just be patient and you'll be out in no
time. We had to close your bank accounts, not that there was
much in them, but don't worry about a thing. I am going to give
you a little allowance for looking after the housework and other
chores for me until you get better."

Laura reached down and took Larry's erect prick in her hand.
"Any trouble with this little thing girls", she asked as she
turned to Megan and Tina.

"Not a bit", Tina replied. "He's a very good little boy. Aren't
you pet?"

"Yes Ms Tina", Larry answered meekly.

"Better keep him under lock and key though, just to be sure",
Laura spoke in jest. "I seem to remember that he was very, very
fond of playing with the little thing".

"Not any more Laura. Meg and I are the only ones who play with
it now. It's amusing though - the poor dear will do 'most
anything for his wee moment of glory. The little thing can give
them so much comfort."

"Is he ready for Module 2 then?", Laura enquired, as if Larry
was not in the same room.

Megan put down her cup with an apprehensive look on her face.
"Better give him some more time here. For some reason, he wants
to cling on to some of those useless masculine traits. Look at
these pictures. His makeup is a mess - he just can't get the
hang of it."

"He has made good progress though", Tina interjected. "Stand up
and walk across the room pet", she ordered as she poked Larry
with the toe of her shoe.

"Not bad", Laura exclaimed, as she watched her brother's girly
walk to the door and back. "We'll make a lady of you yet".

"Think I'll give Michelle a call. No harm in having a
professional give him some one to one beauty advice. His makeup
really is a mess."

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Act 3 is on the DOMestic blog now at:-

http://u4ds.com/2008/04/a_new_beginning_for_laurence.shtml

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