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C: he is rethinking slavery
Date: Thu, 10 Apr 2008 21:20:01 -0000
From: "priestessavril"

I would like to share this with the list and get advice or
information about problems with my "slave". We have been
together (currently living together) for almost 5 years. We have
had a real slave/Mistress relationship combined with a normal
relationship. He asked me to marry him in December and last week
said he could not go through with it and then told me he is
rethinking slavery.

Please write to me priestessavril@yahoo.com

Sincere replies only.
Also, I am not looking for other slaves so do not apply.

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Re: C: he is rethinking slavery
Date: 14 Apr 2008 19:26:42 -0000
From: tom

I have been a slave for about five years and it is an up and
down journey. Give him some time. Once a slave has a taste, they
can't live without it. At times they may have doubts or question
their life choice but they will come back.

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Re: C: c+b, feminization, and orgasm control
Date: 9 Apr 2008 04:17:29 -0000
From: shywon

xtiml wrote:

>Rubber bathing cap of your choice for him, use when applying
>"Nair" to it, also rubber gloves of choice

Never apply Nair to the scrotum, it will make the skin bleed and
deteriorate.

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Re: C: c+b, feminization, and orgasm control
Date: 16 Apr 2008 08:26:42 -0000
From: June

Enforced feminization is entirely different from dressing a
sissy or transvestite. Non-transvestite feminization works
simply because most men are frightened of female clothing. (tell
him to wash and iron your lingerie and watch his reaction).

It takes time, and he must already be somewhat obedient, but
getting him into an apron is your best first step. Remember
this, he cannot go back, once he's worn something feminine, it's
a one-way street....

http://www.frocks.nu

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Re: C: Manheim chastity belt add-on (electronic)
Date: 10 Apr 2008 18:25:58 -0000
From: Jimmy

Scott wrote:

>wanted to hear pros and cons of it from members of
>this site before spending

I too had contacted the Manheim representative and found out
about this device. I originally thought the unit might not
exist, but the representative assured me it does. I received
information about the system and was given the contact
information for one user and a controller.

I was wondering if Scott (the original person that posted the
question to this board) or anyone else had any further contact
with the company, done any further investigation or had decided
to try dealing with them for this product?

Thanks for your assistance.
Jimmy

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C: cheap electro-play and stuff
Date: Wed, 16 Apr 2008 02:15:31 +0000
From: "David" at u4ds.com

Hello,

There was a message posted in the last digest with a similar
subject line. It turns out that the "stuff" I refer to in this
thread, when mentioned specifically, causes many folk to not get
their DOMestic digest. (filtered because we mention the wrong
subjects again)

You can see the message by Ashen Spirit at:-

http://u4ds.com/2008/04/cheap_electroplay_whipping_and.shtml

And if it caused you to miss the whole digest, you can see that
issue at:-

http://u4ds.com/2008/04/20080408_8_edited_messages.shtml

Ashen Spirit wrote:

>I noticed people talking about electro-play, how would I go
>about building my own power device? I'm cheap and don't wanna
>order one online. :)

Anyway it's a while since anyone posted about making home made
electrical devices, so perhaps someone has some ideas for Ashen
Spirit who may not have access to those messages in the
archives.

For myself, I'd suggest Ashen Spirit take a look at her local
pet stores and supermarkets, as I understand many now stock the
dog shock collars. And I've heard amounts suggested here which
sound almost as cheap as making your own.

On the other "stuff" - Ashen Spirit wrote:-

>he wants to lose about .... I have a lot of ideas for this but
>I was wondering if the group has any experience

Seems to me you could easily impose a training regimen or order
sessions at a gym and set a punishment schedule if he didn't
meet the targets you set him.

sincerely,
David at u4ds.com

Download "Games People Play" by David.

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Re: C: food and body size control in Ds control in Ds
From: Milliscent
Date: Sat, 12 Apr 2008 19:07:06 EDT

I have to agree with Mia, while not a gay man, I would love
reading about your experiences with this form of control.

Milliscent
http://www.milliscent.com
http://milliscent.blogspot.com

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Re: C: Definitely Interested in Punishment Whip
Date: 9 Apr 2008 11:58:06 -0000
From: "O"

Herb Jameson wrote:

>very interested in the details of how to make these whips.

Thank-you for the interest in punishment whips. To say that they
are "made" is only partly true, as they are really a
modification of a type of equestrian whip, sometimes referred to
as a schooling whip.

From an equestrian store, purchase a supple whip about 1 metre
long, the model that does not have a leather slapper affixed to
the tip, but a nylon tip, similar to a boot lace. It should be
whippy like a light fishing rod tip, with a nice handle.

These whips have a thin fibreglass tapered core, and the
sheathing is a fine woven material, the weave of which continues
past the underlying fibreglass tip about 150mm - 200mm and is
designed to sting.

My favourite is English made, and has a spiral wound leather
handle with steel ferrules, but cheaper versions are fine.

Modification: With a sharp knife, sever the nylon weave so that
it extends only about 6mm past the fibreglass tip. (Now is the
time to shorten the length of the whip slightly if desired.....
just pull the weave towards the handle a few millimetres before
cutting the shaft to length, so that when repositioned, the
weave extends just past the tip).

Using a flame source, melt the protruding nylon weave just
enough to prevent it unravelling.(this is best done using a bowl
of water to wet the fingers, and quickly bringing the melted end
to a point). Don't worry if the tip is not perfect at this
stage, it can be shaped to a rounded tip later.

For the next stage, devise a way of temporarily holding the whip
vertical, handle at the bottom (I use a small fruit tin weighted
with some small stones as the holder).

Take some epoxy resin (such as standard two part araldite) and
after mixing the adhesive and hardener together, apply to the
nylon covered shaft in a thin layer with the fingers, working
towards the tip. It should look like it has just been varnished.
Leave to harden standing vertical.

(I found 5 minute araldite set too quick, resulting in a poor
job. If not using gloves, methylated spirits works as a solvent
to clean off hands).

When hardened, use about #400 grade wet and dry sandpaper to
give the whip shaft a light sanding.... also the tip can now be
rounded, and then repeat the epoxy resin treatment 2 or 3 (or
even 4 or 5 times times if you like a heavy whip), until you are
happy with a smooth glossy finish. The colour of the resin is
clear, so the shaft of the whip will retain it's original
colour.

By modifying equestrian whips in this way, you avoid the wrap
around of the original whip, and the coating gives an extremely
hard, but flexible surface eliminating the risk of nylon
impregnation into the skin under heavy impact, and minimising
wrap around.

In use, these are powerful whips that sting like hell, but don't
bruise easily. As a friend said "it's all in the flick of the
wrist"

Good luck, "O"

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Re: C: Flogging the right person
Date: 9 Apr 2008 11:15:32 -0000
From: VeLvEt

john wrote:

>I am naturally a sub and want to live with a dominant.

Hi John,

I am also new to B&D and very interested in exploring my
dominant side. Where do you live?

Mistress Velvet

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