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As a slave male, most Mistresses I have served could not punish
me through pain, and or humiliation, for I am a slut for both
normally.

So the punishment they would end up committing me to would be to
have a set schedule of tasks I would have to perform, while they
ignored me. The combination of Mistress being displeased and
being ignored is plenty to bring me in line.

After the tasks were performed to her standards I would then be
treated as before. Always worked for me for I would do anything
to keep it from happening again. The Mistresses would find it
easier than coming up with an appropriate punishment every time.

Hello,

GaryAbel wrote:

>The combination of Mistress being displeased and being ignored
>is plenty to bring me in line.

Yes, nobody likes being ignored, but that doesn't seem to
address the questions asked by "Anon Y. Mous" about different
types of punishment, severity, reasons and enjoyment.

Have you ever served a Mistress who enjoyed you being out of
line, so that she had more reasons to punish you and could use
it to stretch your limits to the point where you were no longer
a "slut for it"?

>The Mistresses would find it easier than coming up with an
>appropriate punishment every time.

Yes but what about Mistresses who don't want to take it easy?
What about Mistresses who enjoy crime and punishment?

sincerely,
David

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I would like to comment on the punitive punishment subject, from
the perspective of a submissive male, having lived in a long
term relationship with a very experienced Mistress. From the
point of view of the most effective and corrective punishment,
the whip or cane used severely was my Mistress's favourite
method of punishment, and probably the most effective in its
results. While I enjoy light to medium impact, a much more
severe use of the whip is taken seriously as a punitive and
corrective measure.

The main difference being the severity, but other differences
may include being restrained bent over, little or no warm up,
and the longer duration of the punishment.

The whip used is quite important, and in our case, as we found a
suitable disciplinary whip difficult to source, we made our own,
(and several New Zealand Mistress's now own one of these).

The requirement was that they hurt with a painful sting (fast
and thin) without undue bruising (light), have minimal wrap
around and a powerful swish with only a flick of a Ladies wrist.
They measure approx 940 mm and are slightly similar to a fishing
rod tip.

While they are not available commercially, I would be happy to
describe the making of these whips in this forum if there is
interest.

"O"

Hello,

Re the question on punishment:

As a submale with a little experience I would like to put in my
two-pennyworth. I think probably most couples use some sort of
beating or whipping, maybe on a daily basis, to give each other
pleasure - the sub is reminded of his place and who is in charge
and the Mistress has her sense of authority confirmed.

BUT

When the sub requires real punishment for breaking a rule or
otherwise displeasing his Mistress I think all that is required
is for him to be beaten harder than he wants it. Even a
"painslut" has limits and he just needs to be taken beyond
these. He may have to be restrained during this to stop him
moving about (or running off!).

In this way the sub gets real punishment to teach him to mend
his ways because it is unpleasant for him. Of course the
Mistress will enjoy it - which is as it should be.

After this cathartic experience, the sub will be suitably
contrite and the Mistress having had her anger assuaged will be
feeling forgiveness. The status-quo will have been regained.

(The above assumes that the couple have been together long
enough for there to be complete trust between them and that the
sub has consented to being relieved of his safe-word.)

I think the idea of just ignoring the sub is a terrible idea. It
can only lead to resentment and disaster in the end.
Communication is vital.

Regards.

Definitely Interested in Punishment Whip

Punishment inside a willing role-swap environment, (where he
becomes a willing housewife type), is a delicate subject. It's
actually more about the transfer of power than pain.

Every time reasonable couples attempt to swap their domestic
roles they come up against the natural physical power of 'the
man'. It's bad enough in the bedroom, where he isn't often
willing to become the 'woman' sexually. But once he's worn an
apron, washed the dishes etc domination and feminization can
proceed, if, he accepts punishment.

Over the knee spanking is the best (because it's awkward and
humiliating), and because there is no way back afterwards. A
woman should wait patiently for a good and reasonable excuse
before attempting this, but face-slapping is a good start...